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April 16th, 2008, 05:21 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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Well, I still had hope yesterday when my temps rose. This morning they dropped again and  showed.  I just sat there and cried. I don't understand. You do everything right and you still don't get what you want. I did the robitussin for my cm, we bd like crazy. I just don't get it. It's been 8 months since I lost the baby. It took me 2 months to get pg off the pill both times (with dd and m/c) Now, 8 months later nothing. I am so tired of the up and down of ttcal. I want to just give up. But I want another baby so bad. I'm out for my 2008, christmas baby. Maybe next year.....urgh! I am so blessed to have Haley, but is it so wrong that I want another one? It makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I don't know what to do. I felt after the m/c that I was falling into a funk, pulled myself out, and now I'm falling again. I'm sorry for all this. I hope you all get your bfp soon. G/L to all of you. I love you all. My dh is off Friday and Monday, so we will leave tomorrow night to go to our cabin. Maybe I can clear my head there and decide where to go from here.
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April 16th, 2008, 05:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I am so sorry the witch showed 
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April 16th, 2008, 05:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Connecticut
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I am so very sorry... Try to enjoy your weekend together and get some good R & R time...
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April 16th, 2008, 06:41 AM
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I'm really sorry
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April 16th, 2008, 06:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Ohio
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I am so sorry Michelle I was really hopeful that this was your month!
Would you consider making an appt to go meet with your doctor? Atleast tell him what you've been doing and show him your chart and see what he thinks... I think if I am not pregnant after this month or possibly after next month, I will be making an appt. Just a thought...
I hope you enjoy your weekend at the cabin! Get some rest girl 
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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April 16th, 2008, 07:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh d**n that old witch...
I'm so sorry she showed...but maybe some away time with your family is what you need...
I hope you get to feeling better soon...
and NO...you are NOT crazy for wanting another child!!
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April 16th, 2008, 07:14 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Quote:
I am so sorry Michelle I was really hopeful that this was your month!
Would you consider making an appt to go meet with your doctor? Atleast tell him what you've been doing and show him your chart and see what he thinks... I think if I am not pregnant after this month or possibly after next month, I will be making an appt. Just a thought...
I hope you enjoy your weekend at the cabin! Get some rest girl [/b]
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Thanks Melanie! I actually already have an appt for May 7 for my annual. I do plan on talking to her about any options.
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April 16th, 2008, 08:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks Melanie! I actually already have an appt for May 7 for my annual. I do plan on talking to her about any options.[/b]
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That's great~May 7 isn't that far away!! I hope she has some answers for you then, or atleast a direction to go in!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12
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April 16th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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I'm so sorry Michelle!!!! I hope your doc is able to go over some options for you and Scotty in May! You could get your Valentine for 2009!
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April 16th, 2008, 09:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Michelle Im so sorry. I hope that your Dr. has some great options for you in a couple weeks. Keep your chin up girl, if you need anything you know where I am  (Im saving you a spot in the 2ww for next month by the way right beside me)
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April 16th, 2008, 10:17 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Thank you all. I don't know what I'd do without all my JM TTCAL ladies!!
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April 16th, 2008, 10:42 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Awwww Michelle!! I'm sooo sorry!!! Good luck and have fun at the cabin!
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April 16th, 2008, 10:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry ! But I am glad that you'll be able to talk to your doctor about everything!
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April 16th, 2008, 01:10 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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aww hun, i'm very sorry she showed! try and have a nice relaxing this weekend!
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April 16th, 2008, 03:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no I am so sorry. This just plain sucks.
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April 16th, 2008, 03:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no I am so sorry. This just plain sucks.
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April 16th, 2008, 03:24 PM
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Member
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I'm sorry AF showed herself. Our cycles are a few days apart, I have a feeling AF is on her way to my house. Hopefully, you and your OB can develop a successful plan. Keep us updated on your appointment.
Brenda
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April 16th, 2008, 04:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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aww hun l'm so sorry she showed you take care
and try to enjoy your trip.
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April 16th, 2008, 06:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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to you Michelle, take care and try to enjoy your weekend with your family. We'll see you when you get back!
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Loving wife to Paul
Proud Mommy to Lukas, Saul (our Angel), Daisy and Elias
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April 16th, 2008, 07:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Michelle....
first LOTS of
I think sometimes we want something so bad it just kills us not to be able to have it.
I also firmly believe it makes us better parents in the end. I know I will celebrate every single day of pregnancy and life when I finally get a sticky bean. Not to say I am not a good mom now, but I never understood how precious life is until I ran into the TTC brink wall.
I hope next month is it for you and you get to have a New Year baby. Want to join me in the Jan DDC?
I will hold a spot for you 
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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