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January 6th, 2005, 09:37 PM
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Hey guys, my name is nikky and I have been trying to conceive a baby since September of 2003 after a miscarriage that happened in July of '03 I also had a d&c done. now that we have been trying for four months I feel like it is never going to happen again for me. It has been really hard dealing with this struggle everyday, and I never thought it was going to be this hard to try to have a child. I have tried the ovulation kits and obviously they didn't work, and then we tried doing it everynight which got a little old after a while and obviously that didn't work either, I am all out of ideas, I guess if it is going to happend it just will happen. what makes it even harder is all my friends around me is either pregnant or just gave birth, one of my friends is due in february and what makes it even harder is I would of been due two weeks after her. I feel like everybody around me has no problems getting pregnant and staying pregnant? Does anyone feel like that? I am sorry I am venting, just looking to see if I am the only one that feels this way?
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January 7th, 2005, 05:03 AM
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Well it took me a few years of trying to have my son. I had three miscarriages. I had a mc in 96 and we tried for a solid year. I did the ovulation tests a couple months and tried to chart for a couple months. I finally just gave up and decided that I just was going to be one of those women who couldn't have kids. I started focusing on something else. I still wanted a baby, I just finally got to the point where I just didn't want to try anymore. And thats when it happened, I got pregnant with Jeremy. Even after I got pregnant, I was sure that I was going to miscarry. I stopped getting excited and getting my hopes up. I didn't want to. He is my miracle baby as far as I am concerned. I have a special song for him. I don't know if you remember it but the song "I knew I loved you before I met you" is my song for Jeremy.

The way you are feeling is how you should be feeling. Its okay to get frustrated and feel like it comes easy for other people. I will be honest I think moms who have never had a miscarriage may take things for granted. But I also think every mom worries when they first get pregnant and I wouldn't wish a mc on anyone. Try not to spend too much energy on this not being fair.

((Hugs)) to you. Hang in there. It may take a while but you don't know what is in store for you yet. Stay optimistic.
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January 7th, 2005, 12:26 PM
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thank you so much for answering me, and I agree with everything you said. It is nice to know there are other people out there who understand and feel exactly how you do.
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January 7th, 2005, 04:02 PM
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I hope you become pregnant real soon Nikky!

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January 9th, 2005, 10:47 AM
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Hang in there! Patty said it all perfectly.
If you are able to focus on something else and not make conceiving "everything" (which is almost impossible), it does tend to happen MUCH quicker.
Will say a prayer for you.
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