hi im new here come over from ttc

.x~KAT~x. · #1 April 18th, 2008, 06:07 AM

well im katt 24 from uk. hi everyone

I had an ectopic pregnancy in dec 2007 and yesterday i miscarried at 4weeks 2days, the doc is currently checkin its not anouther ectopic. Anyway my question is...how soon after a loss did you begin Oing again? i just cant wait

jennntj13 · #2 April 18th, 2008, 06:09 AM

I am so sorry for your loss... Please know that you can ask us anything and we're here for you if you need to talk...

.x~KAT~x. · #3 April 18th, 2008, 06:11 AM

Thanks i just feel so down just keep bursting into tears

why is it i get pregnant really easy but just cannot keep them? its so distressing

Danica · #4 April 18th, 2008, 07:20 AM

Hi Katt & Welcome! I am sorry you lost your little ones. I look forward to getting to know you better! In regard to O'ing, I O'd later than ususal post m/c. Like a week past my ususal O date. The only reason I know is because I was charting. Do you chart? HUGS

MommytoOliviaandCole · #5 April 18th, 2008, 07:31 AM

Welcome to the group! I'm so sorry for your losses.

I M/C Feb. 22nd and I'm not sure if I O'ed in March. This is my first official cycle TTC so I have it pinpointed to CD 19. Which is a few days later than I usually do, but I use my Fertility monitor to make it easy!

Proudmommyof3 · #6 April 18th, 2008, 07:42 AM

im so sorry for your second loss, I just had my second loss @ 12 weeks 2 weeks ago tomorrow. My first loss was in 2003 and I waited for my AF to show and got pg again that cycle. I have heard you are pretty fertile after a loss so i think you could prob o at anytime but Im not sure, I had a d & e last Thursday and keep going abck & forth as to whether we should ttc now or wait til AF shows.

HTH

Eleysia · #7 April 18th, 2008, 08:55 AM

Im very sorry you are going through this right now

I hope we can be some help. these women helped me through my loss and im not sure how i would have coped without the support group. I think i ovulated after my loss, about 1 week or so off. I got a positive opk but didnt wind up getting pg. I hope that helps. Im on my second cycle of trying now. I hope you stick around so we can get to know you. If you need anything at all please let us know or pm someone. This is a crappy thing to go through, espically if you dont have someone to talk to about it

Welcome to the family hunny.

HippyMomOf4 · #8 April 18th, 2008, 08:58 AM

Welcome and i'm so sorry for your losses! I have the same problem i get pregnant really easy but can't stay pregnant. After my first loss i O'd on CD20, and got pregnant, then i lost that baby at 6 weeks, and didn't O until CD28, and now I seem to be getting back to normal.

mommy jenn · #9 April 18th, 2008, 09:05 AM

oh luv im so sorry for your loss. well i have only JUST ovulated now!! its been a long hard emotional cycle and i dont think i caught the eggy this time either, i have been spotting on and off and i dont ahve my normal af symptoms or pregnancy symptoms. it takes your body a while to adjust but since you got preg sooo quik after your ectop you will get your bfp soon! you have come to the right place

NeeshBoogie · #10 April 18th, 2008, 09:32 AM

Hi Katt. I'm sorry for your losses. You came to the right place for support, which I've got lots of, and answers. I'm going through the same thing right now--can't wait to try again and totally unaware when I will O again. Since you got preg really quickly after your ectopic, the eternal optimist in me believes you will have your bfp in no time!

Pound · #11 April 18th, 2008, 12:20 PM

hi and welcome! sorry for your losses. i am still waiting for my first af after my m/c about a month ago, and i'm not sure if i o'd or not. i don't chart or temp or anything. but i'm like you, i just want to try again asap!!! good luck.

Augie · #12 April 18th, 2008, 04:51 PM

Welcome and sorry for your loss. I'm not sure how long after my m/c that I O'd. I didn't start trying until this month and I lost her in Jan.

victorialv · #13 April 18th, 2008, 05:02 PM

So sorry for your losses. I have had two as well, and like you, I get pg relatively easily but have a hard time holding the pregnancy. I found out that I had two blood disorders and my doc thinks that could be the reason for the losses. I was told different things from different docs oon how long to wait, but the most conservative was 3 and on the other end said 1 month. It has a lot to do with your hormones, you don't want them out of whack when you conceive. Good luck sweetie, I hope this next one is a sticky bean!

~*Sam*~ · #14 April 18th, 2008, 06:48 PM

Welcome Kat! I am so sorry for your losses. You have come to the right place. I lost my son on January 26th and I didn't actually O until April 3. I don't know why it took so long, but I am pretty sure that, that was the first time that I O'd since my loss. Good Luck in your TTCAL journey. I'm glad that you have found us and I look forward to seeing you around more. Take Care.