The nerve of some people

Eleysia · #1 April 22nd, 2008, 10:32 AM

Ok so last night in chat I was totally stoked on TTC aka jumping my hubby lol. So I told him, take a shower and such and we will have some fun. Then he has the oddacity to tell me he wants to play some "world of warcraft" (computer game)!!! I looked at him and told him he had lost his dam mind if he was gonna play vs. DTD with me. Oh I was mad. So i asked him if he could play after and he told me he wouldnt want to get out of bed after

lol so i kinda understood.

So i told him to take a shower first so i didnt have to wait after he was done playing. He ASSURED me that he would be done by 9pm. ok well at 10pm i yelled across the hall and told him what time it was. He responded with "well you didnt really wanna do it anyways" !!!! WTH?! I was even more mad. So I cuddled with DS and went to sleep.

Can someone tell me where the heck he got the nerve to come to bed at MIDNIGHT and try to ignight things?!?!?!? So I rolled over, and "helped him out" for a few min, then proceeded to (before anything was "finished") roll over onto my side of the bed and go back to sleep. I cant believe him. he totally deserved to be teased.

Well this morning it came back around to bite me in the butt.. I tried my darndest w/o coming out and saying i wanna DTD before work, and he shrugged me off, and refused!!! OMG! What a terd! Thank god Im only on CD11 or Id have been pissed.

Pitridge · #2 April 22nd, 2008, 10:39 AM

Eleysia, I'm sorry...
sometimes I think they live in a completly different world than us. I have to wait for my husband to be done watching the news before anything can happen (I mean anything

)

Patty

ShannonMVT · #3 April 22nd, 2008, 10:54 AM

Trust me, I know Dhs can be pains in the rears!

Mine accused me the other day that I was just "using him for his sperm". He is so full of it! This was before we had done anything this cycle and I had just told him that I had a naughty dream about him! It totally wasn't about using him for his sperm...that time.

And mine can be like that about DTD too...we'll wait around and then he'll be tired. It's annoying.

..Jessica.. · #4 April 22nd, 2008, 11:18 AM

Dwayne did that to me once, I teased the heck out of him and he hasn't done it since!

I'm sorry it happened the way it did, Eleysia!! There's no way DH would get any if he came to be 3 hours after he said he would!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #5 April 22nd, 2008, 11:23 AM

That is such bull. Men can be so darn frustrating. My dh told me last month that I couldn't use him like that...he was joking of course. They get it when they want it, so the favor should be returned. Even if we do want it for different reasons.....lol!

Brittney06 · #6 April 22nd, 2008, 11:32 AM

LOL those darn dh's can't live with um and can't get preggo without them (well we could but what would be the fun in that?) I think while we are ttc is the only time a man would grip about having to dtd! They want it when they want it not when we do so of course the have to be difficult. Mine finally gave up on even trying to argue cuz I always get what I want even if i have to tortore him to get it.

steph&dam · #7 April 22nd, 2008, 11:32 AM

I have to jump in here!! My neighbors husband (he is 42) plays world of warcraft DAILY from the time he gets off work (4 pm) until he goes to bed (1am). We NEVER see him. I swear her husband and children have no idea what the weather is like once then get home in the afternoon.

Shannon, I received the same accusation. Of course I want you for your sperm. It's part of the "hunt and gather" mentality. Doesn't mean I don't want to have some fun on other days!!

Dan is into the stock market, he turned me down on thursday and friday. Ovulation time. But thats ok. We are taking a break anyway. I am ready to toss his computer in the garbage!

jademyst13 · #8 April 22nd, 2008, 12:04 PM

Men....

Eleysia · #9 April 22nd, 2008, 12:12 PM

LMAO!! Too funny Im glad we all got a mini vent session. I figure tonight it is on like donkey kong!! He will have no choice. he isnt leaving the room till i get my cookies hahahah.

(well and his obviously i need them too)

edited to add Steph, I play wow as well, but only on the weekends. he is at it every night. the crummy part is I got him into it!! lmao!!

Wee3monkeys · #10 April 22nd, 2008, 01:21 PM

It's funny, but it's not funny.

Mine did that too, said he was on strike, because I only wanted to bd to get knocked up.

He got over it though.

babyblue · #11 April 22nd, 2008, 01:35 PM

Men, blah! And I'm not about them instigating it after you've given them the opportunity earlier in the evening!!

My DH says he feels "used" sometimes...

I say, wah wah... poor little baby! His wife wants to take advantage of him..

You get him tonight, girl!

Pound · #12 April 22nd, 2008, 01:56 PM

lol, i'm sorry, i'd be MAD too, but now i'ts kinda funny. just glad it's early, and not cd14 or something. sheesh.

ShannonMVT · #13 April 22nd, 2008, 02:15 PM

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I figure tonight it is on like donkey kong!! He will have no choice. he isnt leaving the room till i get my cookies hahahah.

(well and his obviously i need them too)[/b]

LOL! Girl you are too funny!

Just in case I didn't O, it is gonna be on like donkey kong over here too, DH just doesn't know it yet.

mom 2 haley & tyler · #14 April 22nd, 2008, 02:18 PM

All your dh better watch out tonight. You are all too funny. We want to hear all about it tomorrow...well maybe not all about it.....hehehe...just the good part...

catching the eggie, you silly girls!

Eleysia · #15 April 22nd, 2008, 02:20 PM

LOL Shannon you crack me up!! I hope that you have alreayd o'd and you bfp is just around the corner, but hey if you havnt, then DTD tonight cant hurt right? Good luck honey!!

I discovered that I have EWCM today, and somewhere I read that girls in their 20's usually have it for about 5 days or so. So that means im right on for o, and day 14 has been my lucky number with both pregnancies. oooohhh im so excited!!