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April 27th, 2008, 11:28 AM
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I'm really sorry that I'm posting this but I need you girls so much right now. I'm in the week when I found out that Samantha had died and I started bleeding. I have been checking the tp like crazy the last few days just worrying like crazy that I'm going to start bleeding. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that Samantha would have been 2 this coming May 12th I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and I'm trying really hard not to think of the worst but its so hard. I know worrying isnt good but how can you not when you've been through a m/c. I wish with all my heart that a woman never had to go through a loss. Everyone keeps telling me that god wouldnt have sent me what he did if it wasnt ment to be but all I say to that is why would he send any woman a baby just to take it away????? Can you girls please say a prayer for me tomorrow that all my worrying was for nothing? Thank you girls so much Ok I have to stop writing now because I'm about ready to just thinking about the events of this "week".
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April 27th, 2008, 11:30 AM
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allways sending prayers and thoughts i cant wait tell u do go in and u hear that beautiful heartbeat and he says everything is great.
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April 27th, 2008, 11:30 AM
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I'm praying so hard for you hun!!! I know I was so worried in my first trimester and I didn't have the background like you did!

Can't wait to hear your update. I'm sure everything will be fine!!!
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April 27th, 2008, 11:33 AM
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Cora would have been two this Friday (May 2) so I totally get you there. And the week of the loss is the hardest, I think. Just make sure you keep breathing (I'd get so stressed I'd not realize I was holding my breath), and breathe deeply, and TRY to distract yourself! Everything's going to be fine!
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April 27th, 2008, 11:33 AM
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Thank you girls. I just cant help but be in daja vow. I heard Samantha's heartbeat in the 8th week and found in the 12th week that she died 3 weeks before. I really hope that does not happen again. I dont know if I would be able to handle that again.
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April 27th, 2008, 11:34 AM
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Big hun. I will say a prayer that everything will be fine. I'm sure it is hard to relax when you are so worried, especially when you haven't passed that point where you lost the baby last time. I know I would be on pins and needles if it were me waiting until that 9 week 6 day mark I lost Thomas at.

Go treat yourself to something relaxing tonight! Tomorrow will be here soon and then you will have your assurance that your baby is just fine.
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April 27th, 2008, 11:36 AM
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im so sorry you are hurting so much right now but it is understandable. im sure everything will be fine but i will saya prayer for your before i go to bed and when i wake.
please keep us posted on the outcome
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April 27th, 2008, 11:40 AM
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I promise to let you all know how it went. I have to go in at 8:40 am Pacific Time Zone Thank you all again for all the prayers.
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April 27th, 2008, 11:53 AM
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April 27th, 2008, 12:02 PM
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Angie Ill be praying for you. I just know everything will be fine
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April 27th, 2008, 12:16 PM
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my m/c was at 7.5 weeks. i'm a little over 21 weeks with this pregnancy and i STILL worry! i still check the TP every single time!!!!

i'm praying for you.
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April 27th, 2008, 12:20 PM
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You are always in my thoughts and prayers, Angie!!!

This baby isn't going anywhere, girl!

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