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April 27th, 2008, 11:50 AM
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Alright ladies the always question is this positive or almost positive

and i have been bd'ing for the last four days cuz i thought these things didn't work so since i am sure this is a t least almost positive when should I bd?
K here is the second one

do you think I am surging?
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April 27th, 2008, 11:52 AM
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I would have to say that its negative. The control line should be as dark or darker then the control line. Sucks I know. Hope it turns positive real soon for you.
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April 27th, 2008, 11:56 AM
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Id say it should be a pos very soon. id pee on another tonight or tomorrow morning but i think youll o in the next 48 hours or so
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April 27th, 2008, 11:59 AM
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Thats what i was thinking i didn't figure it was positive just yet but I think it is getting close and I will pry get a positive one later on tonight.
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April 27th, 2008, 12:03 PM
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i would say its negative but to keep bding and do another test tonight and in the morning. it does have to be as dark as or darker than the control line to be positive
good luck catching that eggie
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April 27th, 2008, 12:50 PM
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That is really really close. I would say with you just missed the *big surge* or it is going to happen very soon. That is so close I think if it were me I would count it as a positive unless you see a darker one. I bet it dries darker than the control
You should BD tonight and tomorrow if you can. The day after that wouldn't hurt too!
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April 27th, 2008, 12:52 PM
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I agree with Bobbie & Angie in regards to how dark the line should be.
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April 27th, 2008, 12:52 PM
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Ah man bobbie you are killing me! I already did it like 4 days in a row  LOL normally (fair warning tmi) i am unstoppable when it comes to dtd but my goodness I am getting wore out!  I just want to rest and sleep
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April 27th, 2008, 01:00 PM
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I agree that it looks almost positive. Take tonight off since you got last night covered. I would say attack him in the morning for a change of pace and you still got all your days covered. Usually the opk's turn + the day before you actually O, so good luck. Oh and taking a full day off won't hurt either. They say every other day is ok. Good luck and I hope you catch that egg!
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April 27th, 2008, 01:00 PM
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Okay rest today and then try to go for it!
Seriously one day off won't kill your chances! Plus think of all those swimmers already there just waiting for that egg to hit them in the head
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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April 27th, 2008, 01:05 PM
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YAY for rest! and that will work good cuz my hubby works crazy hours so he gets home right as I am waking up in the morning  I just want this so bad though that I don't want to miss it, you know!
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April 27th, 2008, 01:17 PM
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I just wanted to add. I know this is a stretch, but if we both make it into the same DDC i can be your due date buddy since they usually pair a BTDT mom and a first time mommy!!! Ugh ok so heres to the 2ww from heck
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April 27th, 2008, 01:22 PM
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I would say tomorrow will be a positive, i would just keep BD for the next 3 or 4 days. Catch that egg girl
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April 27th, 2008, 01:30 PM
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Yay eleysia I really hope we get our BFP along with everyone else that is trying right now! I can't wait to see a million BFPS this month!
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April 27th, 2008, 02:00 PM
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Yeah baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that second OPK is soooo pretty
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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April 27th, 2008, 02:04 PM
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YAY and it is even darker now that it is dry I think I def. caught the surge! So now that we know for sure when it is positive Should I just suck it up and go bd or should I still wait till tomorow morning?
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April 27th, 2008, 02:07 PM
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Um i do believe that second one is a pos. id say within 24 hours youll release ur egg =)
BD tonight, cuz sperm live 3 days at least so that way youre good to go kwim?
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April 27th, 2008, 02:09 PM
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Ya I think I better go bd AGAIN to make sure I have lots of spermie right there waiting! I want that eggie fertilized the second it gets into that tube!
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April 27th, 2008, 02:10 PM
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I personally would suck it up and DTD, but I do think you would be safe waiting till tomorrow
Good luck!!! I really hope this is it for you
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April 27th, 2008, 02:15 PM
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Yay eleysia I really hope we get our BFP along with everyone else that is trying right now! I can't wait to see a million BFPS this month![/b]
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I want you all to get bfps too, but then I'd feel SO left out. lol.
LOADS of  anyway!
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