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April 27th, 2008, 08:11 PM
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Super Mommy
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I have all the pg symptoms I would normally have yet I tested tonight and got a BFN!! I don't understand, I have been spotting and sometimes its red but it hasn't even been enough to wear a liner. I thought for sure tonight would be the night and now I'm just kicking myself that I didn't wait til in the morning. The only thing I can think is that either maybe truely I'm not pg or the test was invalid as the control line was kind of spotty/wavy looking. I'll try the other test in the morning but I think I might just break down if I see another BFN in the morning. Truthfully girls, if I'm not pg, I telling Dh to go get snipped because I can't do this anymore.
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April 27th, 2008, 08:41 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Courtney,
I am soooo sorry for the stupid friggin' BIG FAT nothing. GRRR We have all decided to throw our tests at the wall to make us feel better. Want to join?
I hope the line is just being stubborn. I can understand your frustration with TTC. I know there have been times when I really just want my old life back.... pre OPK's, BBT's, HPT's and BD. We used to cruise 4-5 times a year. I haven't been on a cruise in a YEAR just because I would worry that I was PG and *could* miscarry on a cruise. How stupid is that? It's like my old fun...happy go lucky life is gone.
Somedays I just want to toss it all and be happy with the two kids I have.
I totally understand your decision, but pray there is one more baby in the cards for you.
<praying hard>
Love ya girl!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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April 27th, 2008, 08:49 PM
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Super Mommy
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Thanks Girl,
I'm praying too that either AF or my missing line show in the morning, I just can't do this up in the air thing. Please God give me an answer!!
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April 27th, 2008, 08:52 PM
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When is your AF due? I hope you get a BFP this time. I'm sorry the line is being such a pain!
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April 27th, 2008, 08:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh man I hear ya! I am sitting here thinking how bad my boobs hurt, and baffled by the BFN's too. I thought I knew my body pretty well, and I would SWEAR I am pregnant, but nope....just AF being a witch! I hope she shows for me and not you.
If she shows I hope you still keep in touch when not TTC. I missed you while you were gone and have liked having you back 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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April 27th, 2008, 09:02 PM
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just me
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You know, I went through this BOTH times! I always get late bfps. Hopefully that's what's going on. I hope you get your answer tomorrow morning, and I HOPE it's a bfp!!
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April 27th, 2008, 09:20 PM
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I hope AF doesn't show, and you get a blaring  in a few days!!! I got a late + as well, I was 18DPO with Quinn.
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April 27th, 2008, 10:00 PM
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Super Mommy
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JUST TRY TO RELAX, A LOT OF WOMEN GET LATE BFP'S AND THIS IS PROBABLY IT FOR YOU. EVERYTHING WILL BE OK...CANT WAIT TO HEAR FROM YA IN THE MORNING!
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April 27th, 2008, 10:02 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I know how you feel girl! I hope and pray it isn't AF for you and that you'll get your BFP tomorrow! Good luck girl!
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April 28th, 2008, 12:59 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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i pray you get that bfp really soon. i didnt get a pos hpt with ANY of my boys until it was confirmed by docs (was seeing them for other things everytime because i was determined i must be imagining things) and with dd i was 7 weeks when i found out with a hpt! stupid things.
cant wait to see that next test and it HAS to show a bfp!!!!
xx
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April 28th, 2008, 03:40 AM
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I hope it is just a late BFP
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April 28th, 2008, 04:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Courtney, I have EVERYTHING crossed for you hoping that you see 2 lines when you next test! You so deserve this!!!
It's not over until she shows...
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April 28th, 2008, 06:14 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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I so hope you see that BFP in a day or so. Please KUP!
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April 28th, 2008, 07:13 AM
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Super Mommy
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Thanks Girls,
You are all so positive. I keep trying to think the same thing, as I know I am a late BFP person as well. I just didn't keep track of how many DPO I was when I got my last BFPs so I have nothing to gauge by. Anyway the line on last nights test looked different then the last FRER BFN I got so I am kinda leaning toward it being an invalid test. I kinda wonder if in my excitement to see those two lines I didn't dip it for long enough, as it took a while for the control line to show up as the dye moved across even. However I am sketchy to use my second test this am because Dh told me he thought I should wait til Wed and if I use the other test and again get a BFN, he will be really mad if I later have to go buy even more tests again. He honestly feels they are a waste of money. I could never be a full out POASaholic or Dh would go Ape!!
The only other thing that has me concerned is my spotting. I have had spotting with all my pgs and each time it has been a little different. This is like consistant brownish/red spotting. I can't call it a flow as I haven't had to even wear a liner but it is very disturbing considering the circumstances. I am worried that if I am pg that if could be the indicator of a problem. I am really half a notion to call the dr today just not sure. I'm going  here! I just wish I could get one or the other, AF or BFP, so I would know what is going on.
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April 28th, 2008, 07:41 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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How many dpo are you? When is af due? I'd call the dr just to see if maybe they can do the blood work. It can't hurt. I hope you get an answer soon, honey! I'm praying you get a BFP soon!
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April 28th, 2008, 08:12 AM
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Super Mommy
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How many dpo are you? When is af due? I'd call the dr just to see if maybe they can do the blood work. It can't hurt. I hope you get an answer soon, honey! I'm praying you get a BFP soon![/b]
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I an 17 DPO and AF is 5 days late, however I have lightly spotted for those 5 days too, mostly brown with the occasional bright red. I assumed IB since it didn't pick up and kind came and went for a while, but now its more consistant but still nothing I have to even wear a liner for and totally out of the ordinary for me as AF. My AF are usually light red flow the first day picking up to extremely heavy for 2-3 days then tapering off, so if it is AF it's the most enjoyable AF I've had in a long time. Still doesn't explain why I "feel" pg though. No AF cramps, minimal bloating, extremely tired by mid-day, and easily fatigued, nausea if I don't eat right away, and then still a little right after I eat, sore bbs, sensitive nips, defined montgomery's glands. I had told Dh that if I was late, I would "know" I was pg because I haven't been late for the last 6 months and I haven't had a cycle that lasted this long since Oct. Even my first cycle after my m/c was only 37 days, and this is CD 37 for this cycle. So I know something wierd is going on I just don't get why I am still getting BFN and not even a faint line. I'll go grab my HPT from last night and take a pic, BRB.
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April 28th, 2008, 08:21 AM
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Super Mommy
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My Fingers are crossed for you sweetie!!! I wish you the best!!!
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April 28th, 2008, 08:52 AM
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Super Mommy
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Ok, so here's the pics!!
This is last night's test!!
And a little closer...
This a FRER that I took last Wed!
You can see how the lines look different and hence why I think last nights test maybe invalid!
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April 28th, 2008, 08:57 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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I see what you mean. I would call the dr and see if you can get some b/w. I hope this is it. I'm already excited...
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April 28th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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just me
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You're right, that like IS a little strange...but I don't know what to make of it.
I'm sorry that you're still in limbo! I would definitely call the doc!
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