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April 28th, 2008, 02:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So I've had some Orangish blood today, which I guess is old blood. DH and I DTD last night. So when I called the nurse, she said the doctor had made a note that I should be on pelvic rest!! ARGG, and when was I to be informed?!! Maybe he thought he told me, he does seem to be on top of things. But UGH!!!! Will I ever get to be excited?! So more prayers are very much appreciated!
Oh, and sorry if this offends someone reading it. I'm not sure what's going on with the pg ladies not being able to post, I think I missed something  ?
UPDATE 4/29
So I was so happy this morning, I had no bleeding what so ever! Then this afternoon I had some, and it's red  . There isn't a lot, only when I wipe. But any is too much in my book. So I called the nurse, and she said I have to rest for the rest of the day. And that the ultrasound they did at the ER showed a hemorrhagic cyst. -I guess that is what the doc was trying to explain before  (?)- She said that could be causing it, or still from DTD. Either way I have to rest until my ultrasound tomorrow afternoon. I asked if it would hurt the baby, and she said no. Tomorrow seems forever away! PLEASE KEEP SENDING THOSE PRAYERS!! -HUGS-
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April 28th, 2008, 02:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Awe hun T&P your way. Im sure it is like you said old blood. Enjoy that PR!!!
PG girls can post updates, just not complaints  so your good to go!
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April 28th, 2008, 02:19 PM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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I'm sorry Tatiana! I hope the blood stops. I know that can be scary. I will be praying for you. KUP
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April 28th, 2008, 02:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no  How scary. I would be po'd if the doc put me on pelvic rest and didn't tell me but I guess it may have been an honest mistake. The blood is most likely from dtd. HUGS
When do you go in for your next checkup?
ETA that I will most definitely keep you in my prayers.
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April 28th, 2008, 02:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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That's crazy that your doc didn't TELL you he wanted you on pelvic rest!!! What a weirdo!!!
I'm hoping, praying, wishing, crossing everything that the blood you saw was OLD blood OR caused by the act you had last night with DH.
Maybe give up sex until the doc gives you the go ahead? A friend of mine wasn't told about her pelvic rest either, and now she can't have sex until after the baby is born. She's 4 months pregnant too.
HIH!!
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April 28th, 2008, 02:24 PM
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just me
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Tatiana, it's not that pg ladies CAN'T post, it was just a reminder that those that are pregnant should be sensitive to those who have had recent losses or who have been TTC a while and aren't pregnant yet. That's all.
 and you are DEFINITELY in my prayers!
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April 28th, 2008, 02:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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oh man I can't believe he didn't tell you that! That's pretty ridiculous. I would be annoyed too!
I sure hope all the PG ladies still post here. You guys give me hope!!
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April 28th, 2008, 02:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I bet it's just from DTD, but it sure would have been nice if you had know you should be on pelvic rest
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April 28th, 2008, 02:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies! I see him and also have an ultrasound on wednesday. But if the blood turns red I have to go in right away.
And I understand about the "pg" thing now
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April 28th, 2008, 02:44 PM
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I will be keeping you in my T&P's that everything is going good with the baby and the blood is just from the DTD
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April 28th, 2008, 03:39 PM
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How scary! Hope it's all over & good luck with the u/s.
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April 28th, 2008, 03:41 PM
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I can't wait to hear about your u/s on Wednesday!!! Good luck!!!
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April 28th, 2008, 03:43 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no. I certainly hope all is ok. You'll be in my t & p! Big Hugs!
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April 28th, 2008, 03:49 PM
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You know you are in my T&P! I am sure its from DTD, which now you cant do, so hopefully you have no more spotting
join the pelvic rest club  LOL
KUP!!
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April 28th, 2008, 04:01 PM
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Super Mommy
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Geez, you would think that the OB would have given you a clue about pelvic rest. Crazy!! You know, you can still have umm... intimacy.  Without DTD. heeheehee.....
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April 28th, 2008, 04:58 PM
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Girl.... that baby is going to be just fine
That sucks about the no sex rule! UGH
GROW BABY GROW!!!!!
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April 28th, 2008, 05:01 PM
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Oh, I'm so sorry. I hope everything is alright! Can't believe he forgot to tell you, seems rather important!  I'll be praying for you
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April 29th, 2008, 01:54 AM
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oh no how awful you didnt get told that important bit of information!
 and i will keep you in my prayers
xx
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April 29th, 2008, 04:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Even though we talked about it some in chat last night, I just got to read your post.
Just wanted to tell you that you will be in my T&Ps!!
Can't wait to hear the update from your US tomorrow
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April 29th, 2008, 05:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I had the same thing with DS, an vaginal ultrasound or DTD would cause spotting. Just avoid DTD and you'll be fine. I will keep your little bean in my prayers
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