[mom 2 haley & tyler]

Well here it is cd16 and I haven't oed yet. Wth? I usually o on cd15. I just knew I would yesterday. So we bd on cd12, cd14, cd15. Hopefully I'll o today and I have my bases covered. Arggg!

So for the last week Haley has been making comments like "if I have a baby brother or sister...." It breaks my heart. When I was pg before she was so happy. She just doesn't understand, poor baby.

My dh doesn't like to know the specifics of all this ttc thing. He's one of those that feel it will happen if it's meant to be. A couple months ago I had to sit down and explain to him how it work, oing, when to bd, etc. Just so he'd understand. So, I told him last night that we needed to bd. He's like "It's beginning to feel like I'm at work, having to do this all the time" WTH? I just told him to forget it. Why is it that when they want it for days or every other day it's fine? But when we do, they wanna complain. IMO they should be happy even if we do have a hidden agenda. Anyway, now I didnt' even o. I know I won't be able to get him to bd again for at least a day or two. I just hope I o soon and we caught it.

I'm so tired of all this. I don't want to temp, wonder when I o, worry, etc. I just want a baby!

Sorry for the long vent. I just needed to talk to someone who understands. Thanks for listening!

[madmum_sarah]

men are like that unfortunatly (i know mine is! rolleyes: ) what about if he thinks you already Od? would he be more inclined to bd then?
i really hope you O soon and get that eggy.
i had to stop temping as it was driving me mad, luckily now i know when i O so dont need to.
best of luck hun
x

[Danica]

HUGS, I'm sorry. I know what you mean about men. Travis was the same way. He told me one time that he wished that I could just baste myself I mean, he was joking but kind of serious too *rolls eyes* I am sorry about Haley, it is so hard for little one's to understand.

I just wanted to tell you that I ovulated late (day22) and it worked out and we didn't even dtd every day. Maybe you could go with the dtd every other day method around and after your O time and then hubby would be more happy to participate?

HUGS

[Eleysia]

Michelle Im so sorry you are having a rough time. I dont know why but it seems like alot of the TTCAL girls are having a downer of a month.

[ShannonMVT]

I know it is sooo annoying to not know when you are going to O. Especially when Dhs start acting like pains in the butts. You are not alone, mine accused me this month of "using him for his sperm". LOL!

I wish we didn't have to worry about all this stuff.

But here's hoping that you Oed today and you can be in the 2ww!

[Brittney06]

When my dh starts being a butt I just tell him yep I using you Now get to work! and if he refuses just go on strike!
He turned me down once and so I turned him down for the next two weeks, He has never tried that one again

[Melanie0507]

Sorry you haven't O'd yet, and sorry dh is being such a pain!

I hope maybe you O today and you get a nice temp rise tomorrow. Either way, take tonight off and give him a break and then attack him tomorrow night to make sure you've covered all your bases