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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Bristol, England, UK
Posts: 7,175
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Yesterday my miscarriage was finally confirmed, My Hcg at 6 weeks had gone down from last thursdays 195 and was yesterday 159. A scan showed just fluid in my uterus. I want to TTC straight away...
I have not had a real heavy bleed yet, will i probably get one?
how long do you think 159 HCG will stay in my system?
Will it stop me Oing?
How long after a natural miscarriage should you wait before DTD?
Help please!!!!
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
Posts: 5,129
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I'm sorry for your loss!
I was told to wait two cycles after my m/c though alot of women are told one. I didn't stop bleeding/spotting for a while so we didn't DTD for probably 3 weeks after the start of my m/c. You may or may not O before your first AF.
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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kat my love im so sorry 
the girls here are a great support hun and im sure they will help you through this just as they have been with me.
my thoughts are with you sweetheart
xxx
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
Posts: 8,212
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I was also told to wait 1 cycle. I had a d&c though. I hope it all ends very quickly for you. We're here if you need anything!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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Im sorry for your loss, and Id like to welcome you to this board. These women are amazing.
Ok some facts.. You physically cannot ovulate until your HcG is less that 5-3. So unfortunatly you have a bit of a wait. I knwo that with my loss I blead alot for 1 week then spotted for 1 week after. My hcg went from 981 down to less than 5 in about 2 weeks. I had a natural m/c and was only 5w5d. I hope that helps.
Also i was told wait 1 full cycle. And i dotn think you have to wait to DTD.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I am very sorry for your loss. Yes, bleeding and cramps will likely get heavy (TMI w/ clots and what not). I bled for a little over a week and then didn't get AF for just over 5 weeks. We tried right away, since I had a natural m/c for my first one.
This 2nd m/c, the bleeding was pretty light and I still have hcg in my system... I bled for maybe 4 days, but may still need a d & c. I believe w/ d & c's they want you to wait at least 1 cycle.
As long as your body still believes you are g, I don't believe you will o... and it should go down to less than 5 within a week or so. Your doctor may order another beta to make sure that it has gone down.
Big Hugs!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Bristol, England, UK
Posts: 7,175
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Thanks everyone
i expect i will wait till next cycle....but we all know how hard it is
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
Posts: 13,484
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Hey girl! again i'm so sorry for your loss. Glad to see you over here though, all these ladies are great
I was told to wait one cycle, it wasn't too hard lol. But not ever dr will tell you to wait. Some say you can right away. Just depends if you are ready to.
My HCG was 295 with my last loss and it took only about 4 days to go back to 1. So it should take long at all, i would expect to O late this cycle and have a longer cycle than normal. Some women have heavy bleeding and some have very light. So it all depends on your body. Good luck with TTC again!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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I am so sorry for your loss.
I had a natural m/c and we were told to wait one cycle. I don't think I ovulated that first cycle after the miscarriage anyway. We waited maybe a couple weeks after the m/c before we DTD.
I'm not sure when my hcg went back to zero but I know it was back down by the time I had my next AF.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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I am so sorry for your loss - it helps having others with similar experience to talk to.
I had a natural m/c 3 weeks ago. I bled for about a week - not too heavily and it tapered off slowly.
I don't know what my HCG levels were or how long it was in my system. I think I O'd as I had symptoms (I'm not officially charting yet), but I am still waiting for my AF.
The ER doctor and my Dr both told me to wait for one full cycle.
Good luck!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
Posts: 3,593
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Lots of the above women have already given you great into, so  on what they said
I just wanted to say that I hope your #s go down quickly so you can get back to TTC!
And, I just have to say that your little boy is sooooo cute!!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12

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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: TX
Posts: 4,096
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first of all sorry for your loss, and when i had my miscarriage i had a d&c and at the hospital they told me i couldnt dtd until 30 days and to ttc after 2 cycles but when i went in for my 2week check up my doc told i could ttc right way that there isnt anything that will make you miscarry again due to trying again and also stated that if your body isnt ready you wont get pregnant so i have your levels drop quickly so you can ttc and i dont think you will ovulate till your levels drop to at least 5 or less
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss. The ladies here are a wonderful support.
You wont O until you are less the 5. Some ladies do not O before their first AF.
We DTD once the bleeding stopped. We also didn't use protection. I just got my first AF since my m/c and it was 28 days since I started to m/c... so I'm still on schedule. Once AF leaves we are actively TTC
I hope you O soon and get your BFP right away!! Good luck
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