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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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So, you remember the board from yesterday? The one where the girl wished a miscarriage on someone else?
Well, I posted a pic of my daughter and her dad. The history is, because we got pregnant so quickly into the relationship, his family wondered what my intentions were and whether or not she was his. Well, there was no questioning paternity.
That same girl from yesterday, said this in response to the picture:
probaby cause they knew what you are like and knew that there was a chance that she wouldnt be his until a dna test proved it
I am so freakin fuming right now, it's not even funny.
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
Posts: 8,212
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Why do you even associate with these people? You need to stay away from that board. That is crazy doing that to yourself.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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This isn't the same board from long ago. And it's only one person. No one over there likes her, yet she doesn't get banned either. I know I should just ignore it, but when its about your kids, it's hard to ignore. I have friends at this board. That girl, is not one.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
Posts: 4,478
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That is definitely not a nice thing to say. I honestly don't understand why you keep going back...
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: huddersfield, west yorkshire
Posts: 22,140
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OMG thats terrible
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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That is definitely not a nice thing to say. I honestly don't understand why you keep going back...[/b]
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Because it's not the same place that I posted about long ago. This is a different board. I'm just going to ignore anything she says from now on.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I would stay away from her and that board. If it gets really bad, notify a mod. and see if she gets banned.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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 she sounds like an ignorant, hateful person, and id report her, and stay away. you can always get the ladies that youre friends with email's and communicate that way. its just not good to surround yourself with people like that Brandi, plus you dont need that ######, espically not when pg.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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The mod sees it all the time and chooses to ban those who dont cause trouble. It's weird over there. That board is messed up. I'm just not going to respond to her anymore.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 834
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What is wrong with that girl? Who says that people!!!
Don't stoop to her level and respond. You're better than that!
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Me: 33
DH: 32
TTC 3/07
m/c - 7/29/07 (5w4d)
m/c - 10/8/07 (6w4d)
m/c - 2/27/08 (11w5d)
m/c - 6/20/08 (7w2d)
9/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, not enough mature follies
10/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, ovulated on my own
12/08 - IVF w/ PGD: BFP!
Owen Royce...born August 28, 2009
1/10 IVF w/ PGD: 1 egg fertilized, so no PGD
1/30/10 Transferred in one embryo
2/13/10 - BFP!
Georgia Elle...born October 15, 2010
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Midland,tx
Posts: 6,456
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omg what a rude _____ fill in the blank.
sry u went trew that
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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I don't need a DNA test to prove my daughter's dad is actually her dad.
Just look at the picture. There is no question about it. It says it all!!
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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omg that is shocking. i was on another forum and got the same kind of thing. i realised it wasnt good for me or my family and nothing was being done so i left. much healthier solution!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Bristol, England, UK
Posts: 7,175
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OMG i cant believe people on parenting forums can be that rude! IMO She is obviouslly very unhappy in her own life and we should just pity her
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Brandi you are much more patient than I am. I don't know if I would have been able to take the high road. Good for you for being the grown up. Hopefully if more people are like you and stop responding to her she'll leave the board altogether.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Southern california
Posts: 601
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the question I ask myself is why does this keep happening to you? I would remove the negative element (the board) from your life. Surround yourself with the positive.
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