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May 2nd, 2008, 07:58 AM
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So, you remember the board from yesterday? The one where the girl wished a miscarriage on someone else?

Well, I posted a pic of my daughter and her dad. The history is, because we got pregnant so quickly into the relationship, his family wondered what my intentions were and whether or not she was his. Well, there was no questioning paternity.

That same girl from yesterday, said this in response to the picture:
probaby cause they knew what you are like and knew that there was a chance that she wouldnt be his until a dna test proved it

I am so freakin fuming right now, it's not even funny.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:06 AM
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Why do you even associate with these people? You need to stay away from that board. That is crazy doing that to yourself.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:08 AM
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This isn't the same board from long ago. And it's only one person. No one over there likes her, yet she doesn't get banned either. I know I should just ignore it, but when its about your kids, it's hard to ignore. I have friends at this board. That girl, is not one.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:09 AM
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That is definitely not a nice thing to say. I honestly don't understand why you keep going back...
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:11 AM
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OMG thats terrible
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:16 AM
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That is definitely not a nice thing to say. I honestly don't understand why you keep going back...[/b]
Because it's not the same place that I posted about long ago. This is a different board. I'm just going to ignore anything she says from now on.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:23 AM
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I would stay away from her and that board. If it gets really bad, notify a mod. and see if she gets banned.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:37 AM
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she sounds like an ignorant, hateful person, and id report her, and stay away. you can always get the ladies that youre friends with email's and communicate that way. its just not good to surround yourself with people like that Brandi, plus you dont need that ######, espically not when pg.
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May 2nd, 2008, 08:40 AM
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The mod sees it all the time and chooses to ban those who dont cause trouble. It's weird over there. That board is messed up. I'm just not going to respond to her anymore.
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May 2nd, 2008, 09:25 AM
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What is wrong with that girl? Who says that people!!!

Don't stoop to her level and respond. You're better than that!
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May 2nd, 2008, 09:33 AM
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omg what a rude _____ fill in the blank.

sry u went trew that
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May 2nd, 2008, 09:48 AM
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I don't need a DNA test to prove my daughter's dad is actually her dad.

Just look at the picture. There is no question about it. It says it all!!

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May 2nd, 2008, 09:55 AM
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omg that is shocking. i was on another forum and got the same kind of thing. i realised it wasnt good for me or my family and nothing was being done so i left. much healthier solution!
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May 2nd, 2008, 01:22 PM
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OMG i cant believe people on parenting forums can be that rude! IMO She is obviouslly very unhappy in her own life and we should just pity her
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May 2nd, 2008, 03:56 PM
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Brandi you are much more patient than I am. I don't know if I would have been able to take the high road. Good for you for being the grown up. Hopefully if more people are like you and stop responding to her she'll leave the board altogether.


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May 2nd, 2008, 08:57 PM
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the question I ask myself is why does this keep happening to you? I would remove the negative element (the board) from your life. Surround yourself with the positive.
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