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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,518
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Girls I am very sad to say I have asked to step down.
With the upcoming battles with my insurance company, and all the doctors appointments on top of my crazy work schedule.... I don't think I wouldn't have anough time to devote to a board this busy. I have had a blast hosting and hope one of you ladies takes my hosting position.
I have LOVED every single day I have been able to host this board. I will still be an active member, but just can't seem to find enough time to respond to the new posts each day, let alone create new ones.
I hope you all understand 
This really is THE BEST board on JM 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,848
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Awwww, so sad to hear that Bobbie. We'll miss you as host, but we're going to be so so so excited when you get your BFP with TWINS!!!! Can't wait to hear that news!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
Posts: 5,129
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Well as long as you aren't leaving us I guess we will allow it
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,518
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Nope....at this rate I will be here till the end of time! 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
Posts: 5,129
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Well as long as you mean that you will stay here once you get that sticky BFP!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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OoOoOoOoOohHhHhHhhH! 
I know that you are going to have your hands full... you are a great host and it will be hard to fill your shoes...
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Mom of 2 beautiful girls!
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Michigan
Posts: 8,906
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Bobbie, I am going to miss you so much. You have been such a great host and friend and have been so much help in everything I've been through. I will miss you so much as a host but so glad that you are staying around.
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Thank you Helen for my beautiful siggy!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 3,594
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Well...since you promised you weren't going anywhere 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: California
Posts: 3,320
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Bobbie,
I just about fell over...I am so sorry that you are stepping down but I completly understand. You better not disappear though. You are an intigral part of this board and it just wouldn't be the same with out you around. Love you Girl!!!!
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Thanks BAM for my amazing siggy
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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Bobbie I am bummed that you won't be a host anymore. But I understand.
You have to stay and post as much as you can though! Otherwise I'll 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Illinois ( originally From New Jersey:)
Posts: 13,040
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O M G ...................
this board will NEVER be the same without you. YOU are the best host ever...on any of the JM boards.
you have been there for everyone since day 1, and even during your own sorrow, you have always managed to make the ladies here feel better....I dont think any one here would disgaree with that.
I do understand why you have made the decision and of course wish you only the best !!!!
and we know you wont be far away.... 
I love ya girl !!
~HUGS~~
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 3,071
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you should do what's best for you! you've been a great hostess, and now you'll just have more time to devote to ttc 
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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im so sorry you are stepping down but im glad to read you will still be around here. it wouldnt be the same without you.
hope things settle for you soon and you can find tme to post about getting your bfp 
xx
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
Posts: 4,478
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Oh Bobbie, you have been such a huge part of this board and have made it so enjoyable for so many girls. You were there to support me through all my losses and I love you so much for that strength you gave me. You will truly be missed. I do understand but I am still sad to see you step down. HUGS I am going to hold you to your word, you can't totally leave or I will have to fly to Rochester and put up "Missing" pictures until I track you down
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Midland,tx
Posts: 6,456
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sry ur not gonna be co-hosting anymore on here  and i wish ya all the luck in the world
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Allways Remembering our Angels
Angelina Marie 08-02-99, William Dewayne 02-08-01, Thomas Ray 07-30-02 and BabyBean 02-22-08 and BabyBean 03/02/2012
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,518
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Thanks girls
I have loved hosting and plan to do it again someday. I love this board and the ladies on it. You all are amazing women and when I am feeling down I know all I have to do is come here and laugh. There is always something to laugh about here.... I love it!
I will be on again after work and I have tomorrow off. My apt is at 12:45 for my baseline ultrasound. I am so worried about how I am going to afford these meds right now. They are $60 a shot (Menopur) and a normal cycle is around 20 vials. My friend has given me 6 she had from last fall when she thought she was going to TTC again. Now I just have to figure out how to pay for the rest. I have been searching online and it isn't very easy to find this stuff. I guess I am about the most stressed TTCing that I have ever been. I just really think this is what will do the trick for me. I feel it in my heart that this is the next step for me. Yeah me who HATES needles! When I talked to my doctor the other day they said if she is my primary OB/GYN then some of the tests and ultrasounds have a better chance of being approved by insurance. So I called and switched my primary. Maybe that will help with some of the costs. I am pretty sure I am on my own for IUI and meds though. This just sucks, but there isn't much I can do this cycle. I may just ask for Clomid and IUI and wait for the meds till next cycle. Who knows. God works in strange ways. Maybe the Menopur will fall out of the sky like the 6 vials did from my friend. LOL Or maybe the money will! (And yes I am playing the lottery!)
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
Posts: 3,593
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WOW Bobbie, I am really surprised to see you are stepping down! I am glad you won't be going anywhere, but you will truly be missed as a host! You have been a real source of inspiration for me since the first day I posted on here! I hope you realize how many lives you have positively impacted with your role on here!
I really hope that things work out with your insurance and you get the meds you need to be able to bring home a healthy baby/or babies!!
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Melanie (&Thad)
Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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Bobbie,
............i dont know what to say. I understand why you made this call, and i respect that. as long as you stay around then we wont have to PM you to death
Plus you know what? By stepping down here, it makes it that much easier to co-host PAL with Dee if she hasnt filled that spot when you get your twins. We love you so much Bobbie, just dont dissapear on us ok?
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
Posts: 39,661
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Oh Bobbie, I cried when I read this!
But I'm glad you're sticking around. I don't EVER want to hear you say you'll be TTC forever okay? You're GOING to get that sticky bfp! My dust is magic. It just might take a couple cycles to kick in!
You're a wonderful person, and I totally understand why you are doing what you are.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Guysville, Ohio
Posts: 681
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You've been a wonderful host. I respect your decision, but am sad to see you go.
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