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May 7th, 2008, 08:50 AM
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ive just been in for my blood tests to see if the hcg was continuing to fall and its not its gone back up it when from 188 to 159 and now its on 227. I have to go back in on friday for a final blood test and if its not falling i will be treated for anouther ectopic with methatrexate....i can handle this anymore

that puts me out for 3 cycles why does this keep happening to me....i wish i hadnt catch that egg...
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May 7th, 2008, 08:59 AM
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I'm so sorry! I hope everything gets better very soon.
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May 7th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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Hey Kat, I'm so sorry. Can't they just check for an ectopic without making you wait? I don't know how far along you are but could there have been an error in one of the readings?

I hope all goes well for you.

Very cute little boy you have there! Mine is going to be 3 in less than 2 months now.....they grow up too fast.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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May 7th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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AWWW Sweetie.... I am sorry



I hope this is resovled quickly and you can TTC again soon. I can only imagine your frustration. If you need anything, just say so... okay?
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May 7th, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Hey Kat, I'm so sorry. Can't they just check for an ectopic without making you wait? I don't know how far along you are but could there have been an error in one of the readings?

I hope all goes well for you.

Very cute little boy you have there! Mine is going to be 3 in less than 2 months now.....they grow up too fast.

My thoughts are with you and your family.[/b]
Im 7 weeks and 1 day since LMP I was scanned at 6 weeks and they saw nothing any where....a week ago i was at 159 so by now i should be back down to about 20 but it has risen. the problem the hospital have is that they can only rely on the bloods i just hope on friday they go down but i doubt it.....they offered me the injection today but i refused....i know thats pretty risky but i have to hope that my body will sort this out on its own because waiting 3 more months is gonna emotionally kill me
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May 7th, 2008, 09:33 AM
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im so sorry you are still having trouble with this sweetheart!
i hope things are back on track at your next tests
you are in my thoughts and prayers sweety
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May 7th, 2008, 09:35 AM
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I'm sorry you are going through this.
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May 7th, 2008, 10:20 AM
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I'm so sorry this is happening. I hope this whole thing resolves soon.
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May 7th, 2008, 10:49 AM
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Im 7 weeks and 1 day since LMP I was scanned at 6 weeks and they saw nothing any where....a week ago i was at 159 so by now i should be back down to about 20 but it has risen. the problem the hospital have is that they can only rely on the bloods i just hope on friday they go down but i doubt it.....they offered me the injection today but i refused....i know thats pretty risky but i have to hope that my body will sort this out on its own because waiting 3 more months is gonna emotionally kill me
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I wish I could give you a hug, I'm so sorry. I guess I was hoping that maybe the last number was wrong and you're down to where you should be so you can get back to ttc. I know it's not easy. Keeping you in prayer for your next draw that your numbers are down and you don't have to get the injection.

What part of England are you in? I'm in the outskirts of Leicestershire.
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May 7th, 2008, 10:58 AM
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May 7th, 2008, 11:08 AM
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I've only been near there once. We were camping at the Forest Of Dean and traveled a bit to go to this HUGE carboot sale. Got there and there was one row, lol. Talk about huge. I did get a pair of cute shoes though.
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May 7th, 2008, 11:24 AM
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I just wanted to express my condolences(sp?). I hope that your numbers go down and your body is able to heal on it's own. I'm so sorry you are going through this.
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May 7th, 2008, 12:01 PM
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I am so sorry. That seriously sucks. I hope your body starts to take care of this on its own and you don't have to wait for three more months.
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May 7th, 2008, 12:24 PM
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BIG Im so sorry hun. i hope the next draw shows them decreasing. I really do. please kup. if you need anything like Bobbie and the other ladies said please dont hesitate. Sending lots of prayers and your way.
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May 7th, 2008, 12:32 PM
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I'm so sorry. Life is really tough to explain sometimes. I'm just hoping you don't have to get the shot Friday, but if you do, I hope you'll hang out with us during your wait.
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May 7th, 2008, 01:09 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this, Kat!

I hope everything is sorted out soon!!

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May 7th, 2008, 05:48 PM
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Kat I am so sorry. KUP - good luck on Friday.
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May 7th, 2008, 06:51 PM
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I am so sorry I hope Friday brings good news!!!
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May 7th, 2008, 08:02 PM
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Awwww... hun, big hugs. I am so sorry.
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May 7th, 2008, 11:11 PM
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i'm sorry this is happening. i hope you get it all sorted out. did they tell you to wait 3 mo. after an ectopic?
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