Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Well af showed up yesterday  , uninvited if I may add, so I guess I’m out for this month.
I guess I just need someone to listen, and who better that you guys. I went home crying yesterday, cried when I got home, cried to my dh. We kind of knew that this was not our month since I did not O. I do not chart, I do the OPK (I know that sometimes it works and some they don’t, but in the past they always worked for me). Anyway, when I talked to my doctor they said that it’s normal if I don’t O for a couple of month after the m/c. With that said, in the back of my head I knew that we probably wouldn’t get pg, but still, since I was spotting a bit in the morning, then it stop it stop for the rest of the day for two days I kind of was getting my hopes up, and now, I’m depress about it  I know, there will be next month,.
I guess I have to see the positive side in this, we get to have fun for another month  and I get to use my steam room so does my dh
Thanks for listening
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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I'm sorry she showed up
Heres to having fun again! Hopefully soon you get that BFP!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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I too am pretty sure I didn't O after one or more of my m/c. It's frustrating for sure.
Here's to a nice fresh start this cycle and a strong healthy BFP
I usually allow myself a bottle of wine all to myself when AF shows. Like my own personal pity party  It makes me feel better
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
Posts: 22,466
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 I'm sorry she showed.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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bobbie if you don't mind me asking, how long did it take to start O again?
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Colorado
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I'm sorry  With my first m/c (I lost twins over two weeks), I o'd the second cycle after my d&c and got pg! I charted so I know for sure I didn't o the first cycle. I hope you have a similar experience. Good luck this next cycle!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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Sorry about af hun. i think she is heading to my house after yours.  think of it this way. if you get the eggie next month youll have some kick ##### girls in that DDC with you
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Thanks for the support, it's been a very bad day so far (I'm half way there only 4 more hours to go  ). I been having pretty bad cramps all morning-which reminded me the first af after m/c was the same.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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Hon.... you can ask me anything
I Oed the cycle after that first AF right on time
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I'm sorry she showed!!!!
Sending lotsssss of dust your way for your next cycle!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Oklahoma City
Posts: 5,660
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Pat, I am so sorry for the day you are having. HUGS!
I completely understand b/c I too did not O after my m/c. I didn't even have AF for over 7 weeks until I took prometrium. Then I started taking clomid (starting my 3rd round tonight) and it did help me O. So hang in there and if you don't O again next month, I'd suggest calling your doc. Maybe he/she can help kickstart things again like mine did. At least I know that I am finally Oing again, even though it still hasn't helped me get pregnant.
Good luck and keep your chin up!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
Posts: 3,593
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 Pat
I am sorry the  showed up
I hope this next month is your month!!!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12

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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,960
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I'm sorry af showed. I hate how our bodies always decide to do strange things that get our hopes up. I o'd right away after m/c (and conceived, but m/c again) but my m/c was pretty early....I hope that next month is your BFP month!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I'm sorry AF showed this month... Big Hugs!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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I'm sorry about stupid AF.
I didn't O the cycle after my miscarriage. But after my first AF, I did.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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i've been there, cried even BEFORE i got my period cuz my boobs felt sore a week before and i knew it was coming.
i hope your uterus decides to cooperate next cycle and pop out an egg.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Thanks ladies, this is my third cyle after the m/c did not O for the last two cycles, if I don't O this month I will call the doctor, they told me to wait 3-4 month before going to them if I didn't O, but I do not want to wait that long.
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