Gonna wait to see RE

mom 2 haley & tyler · #1 May 9th, 2008, 07:11 AM

Well, my dh wants to wait another couple months before we see an RE. He's the type that thinks, it'll happen if it's meant to be. He said we'd talk about it later. Our insurance doesn't cover a lot of the testing, so.....I'm sad, but I understand. I'll try to be patient. Maybe it'll happen soon.... I'm still so ###### mad at my dr. I got the feeling with her that she only cares about pg women, not one's trying. She was really good through my m/c though! Plus, I didn't realize how much it would hurt going back there.

Eleysia · #2 May 9th, 2008, 08:50 AM

Sorry Michelle. I know my DH is like "if thats what the Dr. said, thats what we will do" I hope that you get your bfp and never have to go see that RE. good luck hunny

ShannonMVT · #3 May 9th, 2008, 10:59 AM

I'm sorry your Dh is wanting to wait Michelle. I run into some of that with mine. Don't take this the wrong way, (I totally think you deserve and can't wait for you to have another child!), but I think if we had a living child, my Dh would be acting the same way yours is. I hope you know what I mean, you are not alone in the way your Dh thinks.

Even though my blood draw the other morning went well, I still had bad luck that time I was in the waiting room. I could hear someone's baby who was in for a baby check behind me gurgling. And I was thinking I should bringing my baby up hear to be checked and not having stupid blood tests. Argh. So it does still hurt to go back there.

I hope you get that BFP soon, before you even go to see the RE!!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #4 May 9th, 2008, 11:18 AM

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I'm sorry your Dh is wanting to wait Michelle. I run into some of that with mine. Don't take this the wrong way, (I totally think you deserve and can't wait for you to have another child!), but I think if we had a living child, my Dh would be acting the same way yours is. I hope you know what I mean, you are not alone in the way your Dh thinks.

Even though my blood draw the other morning went well, I still had bad luck that time I was in the waiting room. I could hear someone's baby who was in for a baby check behind me gurgling. And I was thinking I should bringing my baby up hear to be checked and not having stupid blood tests. Argh. So it does still hurt to go back there.

I hope you get that BFP soon, before you even go to see the RE!!

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Shannon, I don't take anything you say the wrong way. I know what you mean. I hope all your testing comes back good. When will you start Femara?

ShannonMVT · #5 May 9th, 2008, 11:25 AM

Hopefully next cycle. I spoke to someone at an RE's office who is doing the SA and they made me think that I might need to get checked with an ultrasound to make sure I don't have any cysts. So I still need to talk to my Dr and see what she thinks.

When are you testing?? I hope this is your lucky month and you don't need to go see any more drs.