[princesskate]

ok well, im able to TTC soon (within like a few weeks) but i keep getting upset. I keep thinking that it will take me ages to conceive, either that or i wont be able to conceive. I dont know why, then i keep thinking what if mark has changed hias mind, and i darent ask him incase he has. and then i keep thinking what if its ectopic again, or what if i lose yet another baby.

sorry if that was pointless post, but i had to get it out and i have no one else to talk to, ive been in tears because all this

[madmum_sarah]

no post here is pointless sweetheart!
i felt the same, sometimes i still do (which is probably why i dont tell my mark when i O ) lol
i wish there was something i could say to make you feel better hunny but i will keep everything crossed for you. i know you are scared but maybe you need to talk to mark about how you feel and make sure your mind is clear for ttc again and that you have his complete support!
sending you lots of love and hugs hun and remember we are always here should you need us
xxx

[princesskate]

thanks hunny. i guess im also scared as i have never TTC before. all of my other pregnancies have been unplanned, so i have no idea what to expect.
Ill have to talk to mark later i think, but i dont really want to. i dont know whether or not to wait untill i have got confirmation from my doc thatm it is safe to ttc ? xx

[madmum_sarah]

non of mine were planned either. the one time i plan on ttc i lose it so i felt even worse!
i cant tell you what to do hun, all i will say is if it was me i would talk to him now. i know its hard but you dont want to get the all clear and then have him say hes changed his mind, im sure it would make things worse.
im pretty sure he wont change his mind and will support you anyway but the sooner your mind is clear and you can relax then better it will be for you.
good luck hunny
xxx

[jennntj13]

Big Hugs! TTC is a very hard process and I think most of us can sympathize... and your post was not at all pointless... we have all felt that way from time to time.

[Danica]

The unknown is scary. Just try to take one day at a time and try to have as much fun as possible on the TTC roller coaster. HUGS

[Melanie0507]

I understand your concern, and it is perfectly normal. That is the great thing about this board...we all understand! None of us will ever be able to have a worry-free pregnancy again, and that just plain stinks But, it is nice to see women go on to have successful pregnancies after being where we are--it gives us hope!

Please know we are all in the same position and will support you in any way possible!