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May 11th, 2008, 03:35 AM
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hi ladies...

i havent been around much, trying not to obsess about the ttc thing... but i do anyway.

anyway my story, so dh left for NZ for 12 days. he left on the 1 May CD10... we bd that day hoping i might O CD14... CD14 came and went no O... so my new hope was that O come late like normal and hopefully will only happen when DH is back can you believe it?

why the hell does this ALWAYS happen to me!!

this is so sad, i ovulated earlier than i ever had and i think it was due to the soy isoflavones... but now i wish i hadnt have taken them... coz now this cycle is bust!!!!

i wish there was still a chance but i dont think so, i have dropped the egg... another egg wasted....
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May 11th, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Oh Man

I am sorry!

There is a very slight chance the egg could still be hanging in there when he gets home.

If you O late today, depending on what time he gets home and you can BD it may not be too late. The egg can live 12-24 hours if I remember right.

OR maybe it looks like O but tomorrow may be the day instead.

I know it's kinda of a long shot, but stranger things have happened!

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May 11th, 2008, 11:16 AM
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thanx bobbi, normally ff marks the day after my dip O day but i had hardly any O pain today... yesturday was the worst so i dont know what to think... i think we will atempt a bd but i think it will be more of a "welcome home i missed you" bd rather than real bd.... so i guess i have to wait another month!! 11 lp days and another 20 plus days til O.... i hate ttc...
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May 11th, 2008, 11:55 AM
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Try a welcome home BD session in the closet

Hey it might work!

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May 11th, 2008, 12:04 PM
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it might for someone else but it wont for me.... im so sad right now i could just cry
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May 11th, 2008, 12:13 PM
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Ooh Jenn don't be so down

I say go for the "welcome home" BD. You never know. You may just catch that egg.
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May 11th, 2008, 12:27 PM
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I'm sorry! I still say you should BD because you never know
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May 11th, 2008, 12:46 PM
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i still have some twigging going on there... could the eggy be holding out?
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May 11th, 2008, 02:08 PM
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That is good news that you are having the twinging/cramping now because usually that happens a couple days before you actually O. When will dh be home? I say jump him as soon as he walks in! Also when your under stress like this it can also delay O for a few days. I hope that is the case for you and you catch that egg.

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May 11th, 2008, 02:38 PM
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I say go for the welcome home session. HUGS
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May 11th, 2008, 05:10 PM
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l agree with the other ladies
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May 11th, 2008, 07:51 PM
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Jenn--I have EVERYTHING crossed that your eggie might hold out until dh gets home!!

Please KUP!
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May 12th, 2008, 08:04 AM
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I hope the eggie waits for dh to get home. When he gets home, I say jump him! I hope this will be your cycle!
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May 12th, 2008, 08:34 AM
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That stinks! Go ahead and jump Dh when he gets home just in case that eggie is still around.

I'll cross my fingers that it's not too late.
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May 12th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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I have to agree with all the other ladies. You never know, it might not be too late, I have to agree jump him as soon as he gets home.

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