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May 12th, 2008, 08:17 AM
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So this weekend was Mother's Day! Hope you all had a great day. I wanted to wish all of us that had lost out sweet babies, a happy mother's day.

And now to the worse thing that my dh has ever said to me. Let’s start by saying that I was a bit more sensitive yesterday than other days TMI-I thought that af was completely gone but after a day of not spotting or bleeding it decided to show up again. Anyway, somehow we started on a topic of mother’s day and I in a very sad way mentioned that I could have been a mom, he had the courage to tell me that even if I hadn’t lost the baby I wouldn’t be a mom. Now, I don’t know about you, but those words crushed me completely. I just needed to tell someone.



Oh yeah and happy belated mother’s day to all of us that furry wonderful creatures.



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May 12th, 2008, 08:24 AM
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Pat, I'm so sorry af came back and dh said that. You are a mother! That would have crushed me too. I hope you get a sticky bean soon, honey
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May 12th, 2008, 08:27 AM
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Happy Mother's Day to you too, Pat!

You ARE a mommy! I'm really sorry your DH said that to you.

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May 12th, 2008, 08:33 AM
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WTH is that supposed to mean?! Seriously?

You ARE a mother sweetie. To your furbabies AND to your angel. No one can ever take that away.



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May 12th, 2008, 02:32 PM
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Thanks ladies. It's great to have you girls around.
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May 12th, 2008, 05:35 PM
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I am sorry he said that Pat! What the heck was he even talking about?!?

You are a mom and no one can ever take that away!

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May 12th, 2008, 05:59 PM
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aww l'm sorry your DH said that to you,lf l was there l would
kick his back side you are a mommy and don't let anyone
tell you otherwise
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May 12th, 2008, 06:03 PM
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Boys are stupid
and also a little clueless.

Happy Belated Mother's Days!
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