[madmum_sarah]

ok we (more like I) decided we are going to hold off for a month or 2 before ttc again due to dh having depression.
his sex drive has been pretty non exsistant recently because of it so this morning i started back on bcp and guess what.... hes "in the mood" i O early in my cycle (normall cd10-12) and im on cd6 now so trying to be very careful not to be doing anything too close. because ive only just started them im not going to be covered so hes been told no and i swear its making him worse! argghhhhhhh

do any of your men want/not want its not convienient (for want of a better word)
xx

[Eleysia]

Well, according to DH Im "never" in the mood. So aparently everytime he wants it, it is inconvinent
Every time I try to instigate things (like 5 times a year lmao) I get shut down. He knows if he is persistant enough ill just give in though. So much for will power

[Pitridge]

I'm actually the opposite , I'm the one being persistant

[madmum_sarah]

dont get me wrong, im normally persistant and he only needs to look at me to change my mind if im not in the mood but the one time im determined and finding it hard anyway hes been even more determined to change my mind! grrrrr!
ive sent him back to his place with a flea in his ear and pointed out im doing this so i dont get pregnant yet so i can be there more to support him! sometimes i wonder why we bother!

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

My dh never seems to be in the mood around o time. He's in the mood every other day though...lol

[ShannonMVT]

Ugh men are so annoying. Mine used to always want it when it was inconvenient. Now we do it so often around O time that he usually doesn't try at other times during the month.

Stick to your guns girl! He will get plenty of BDing...later!!!

[Brittanie]

I'm lucky that DH doesn't have a huge drive. Lol, we'll see what happens the weekends he's home though! =Þ

When we were TTC though, both times he accused me of wanting him just for his sperm and at one point refused to at all until I told him that I was ovulating and that was unfair. That's when he responded with the sperm line. lol.

[KDD]

My DH has been driving me crazy lately for another reason. He's been pestering me non stop (and not for BD). I finally told him that just 'cause he knows that he's going to get lucky regardless doesn't mean that I have to like it! I told him that I only need him for a week each month and if he keeps it up I'm getting the turkey baster out of the drawer!

[Brittanie]

My DH has been driving me crazy lately for another reason. He's been pestering me non stop (and not for BD). I finally told him that just 'cause he knows that he's going to get lucky regardless doesn't mean that I have to like it! I told him that I only need him for a week each month and if he keeps it up I'm getting the turkey baster out of the drawer![/b]

OMG LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ShannonMVT]

he accused me of wanting him just for his sperm[/b]

I got accused of that a month or two ago. I told him that wasn't really fair, that I had wanted him a few days before when I was nowhere near O (but he was tired), so it wasn't like ALL I wanted was his sperm.

[madmum_sarah]

at this moment i wish mark would say i want him for his sperm and go in a mood refusing me!
mine is the total opposite, around O he seems even more interested!!! maybe hes picking up on my already huge drive is even higher then but at the mo its just not a good idea!
im taking one of my boys into town today to buy shoes just to avoid him so he cant try again. he was nasty last night and started sending texts to get me in the mood again. grrr
yep im still raging!

edited for spelling