[pm183]

Hi
I am new here. Just some background. my husband and i decided to start trying to have a baby last Oct. and by the end of Nov I was pregnant! but the day I found out i was pregnant i started bleeding and miscarried. since then i have been sort of obessed with getting pregnant. i have already had 4 cycles since the miscarriage and still no pregnancy. this past month i have been charting my body temp and using OPK - but i have not detected a temp pattern and the OPKs were all negative. now i am scared that maybe i am not ovulating or something is wrong with me. i just get so frustrated because it seems so easy for others to get pregnant and i seem to be struggling with it. is anyone else going through something like this?

[madmum_sarah]

hello and
im so sorry to hear of your loss. i know many women "appear" to have it easy but believe me, spend time on here and ttc and you will realise that actually a lot more have difficulty.
the girls here are wonderful and im sure you will see that for yourself soon enough.
opks are not actually that reliable unless you are doing them more than once a day as the surge can be too short for you to detect it.
i became obsessed with getting pregnant after my m/c but have now finally found it in me to put it on hold for a couple of cycles so i can concentrate on what i have and grieving for my angel. thats all thanks to these girls and i pray they can do the same for you.
x
eta.. do you have a link to your chart? there is always someone willing to stalk and see if they can make sense of it!

[Pitridge]

Hi, first I'm sorry for your lost.
I'm kind of the same boat with you, after the m/c I was obsess with TTC again and getting pg soon. and so far nothing, but this is our second month TTC. I don't temp so I can't help you much with that. I do the OPK and same thing they all always Neg. I called my doctor to tell then that I did not think I was O and they said that it's normal and if in a couple of months I was still not O to call them back. So you might want to try calling them. Sorry I am not much help.

[Proudmommyof3]

I just m/c in april at 12 weeks (bfp in feb) after trying for 8-9 months before getting pg. So of course I was obsessed with getting pg right away before af started and was disappointed wehen af arrived last thurs. Now Im juat waiting for her to go so I can try again. I hope we all get bfps this month

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I'm sorry for your loss. I have been trying for 9 months since my m/c. I hope you won't have to wait that long. G/L