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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
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All coagulation studies came back normal along with my thyroid antibodies. Now I wait on genetics results and an SHG (after my first period). They are running out of things to test it seems. I am starting to feel like this is a hopeless cause.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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 Danica
On one hand, it'd be nice if they found something, but on the other hand, it's nice to know that what they've tested so far has been normal.
I hope they figure something out so that you can quickly get that sticky bean that you soooo deserve.
KUP when more results come back.
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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in a way im sorry they havent found anything. i really wish you could get some answers
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Platinum Supermommy
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Sorry they did not find something, but on the other hand I'm glad that they did no find something bad. I know that probably at this point you want them to find something so that you can get an answers, I really hope you get some answers soon
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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Danica im glad that they havnt found anything bad, but like the girls said im sorry that they havnt found anything yet. I really hope that they can give you promising answers very soon. Im sorry
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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I'm sorry you didn't get any answers! On one had I'm very glad for you that the results were normal, on the other, I understand the relief when you find something wrong and have an answer of some kind.
I'm so sorry you are going through this!
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm also glad everything is okay, but I know you want to know why this keeps happening. You are in my t&p!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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Danica I am so very sorry. I know not knowing is a double edged sword and fusterateing in its own way.
I am sorry I have only caught the odd post of yours here and there and dont know all what happened but I am trying to catch up and I see in your new siggy you have lost so many babies. My heart breaks for you ((hugs))
I am getting my antibody/anticoagulant lupin done next thursday. After that dr are at a total loss for me.
I hope you find the strength to ttc again if your heart desires more children.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
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Thanks girls  I am sorry I have been so sporadic lately. I just am really confused and although I am here reading everyone's post I don't really know if I should be responding all the time because I am just ultra sensitive. I also don't know if we will ttc again so I don't want to get caught up in the spur of the moment and make a hasty decision just because everyone else's excitement. I really am super happy for all the new BFP's though. They are great to see 
PraysforaDozen, I can't remember your name  I just wanted to say I only hope I can be like you to continue in this quest and not loose faith. You must be so strong to go through what you have and keep trying. I keep telling myself that I am going to have to have a cut off. I just don't know if it's 4 or 5 or 6 or 7 losses, maybe more...
I remember when I joined TTCAL September and I saw girls who had siggies that had more than one loss, especially the ones that had 3 or more. I thought to myself that it was so unfair and it must be terrible and that those girls must feel awful but I never thought that in 8 months I would wearing those shoes too. I was so naive I guess, or maybe just always an optimist but now I stand here, proud to have had a chance to carry 4 more babies but terribly sad at the same time. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
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Oh Danica, I'm so sorry sweetie. My heart hurts for you.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2006
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aww Danica l'm so sorry you are going through this
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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i'm sorry, at least maybe if there is nothing wrong with you, there is still a good chance of going full term. that probably isn't comforting right now, but that's the one positive thing about the tests showing nothing. it might be a reach, but could it just be a coincidence or horrible luck all these times? like the one guy who has been hit by lightning twice.
i'm still so sorry for you, if you don't feel like you should be reading here or posting you might want to take a break. i know i couldn't handle coming everyday and seeing all the bfp if it was me. take some time just to heal. <3
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