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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2005
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Could anyone share how long after a D&C that they received their first period. On Tuesday it was four weeks for me, but we have kind of been trying. My HCG was low only 7,000 when I had my d&c so I thought I would get my period back pretty quickly. I had no bleeding either after the d&c, I had a blighted ovum. I'm not sure if I should wait till this weekend and then just test in case I am pregnant. I know I have been having some signs, like sore boobs and a few pimples (otherwise I never have pimples), but I don't want to get my hopes up either. When would you test or would you wait it out for another couple of weeks?
Thanks so much ladies!
Crystal
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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I had my m/c and d&c in august of last year. My levels didn't drop until late October for some reason. I was only 7w1d. So, I didn't even get my first af until the end of october.
The dr didn't want to see if your levels dropped?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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im kinda surprised that they didnt have you get betas to follow your HCG also.
Id say wait 2 weeks and then test maybe? i dunno hunny.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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Test are cheap
I say test now and if it's + test again in a couple day to make sure it is getting darker, then give your DR a call.
I hope you get a blaring BFP
My first AF's showed up 4 weeks almost to the day after all my losses. Good luck hon
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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My last af after a natural m/c at 17 then d&c after took 7w 4d and I Oed before I had af but I was TTA till first af. I got pg the first cycle.
This time I had d&c after a induction at 17w pg and its been 5 weeks and a few days and waiting again for first af. I am TTA till first af and took HPT till neg at 18days after d&c.
I am surprised your dr said to ttc before first af? Most say wait a 1 to 3 cycle depending on DR.
Good luck!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Las Vegas
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I had a miscarriage (w/o a D&C) on April 25. I have yet to have my period. Last week Tuesday, my levels were only at 15. So if AF is coming, she's coming in a few days. If not, then I might just be pregnant. It bothers me that your doctor didn't have you go back for weekly tests for your HCG level. 7,000 is really high still. When I miscarried, my levels were only at 3,400 and dropped to 346 in a week. I'd wait for a couple of weeks and then test.
Good luck.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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Your levels have to be back to 5 or less before you can ovulate from what I understand. If you dont O your lineing just builds up till it sheds itself and you start a new cycle.
Good luck!
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Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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I waited about 5 1/2 weeks after my D&C for AF to arrive.
And, my doctor never checked my levels--before the D&C or after--so it's not too crazy that your doctor didn't
If it was me, I'd wait before I tested, but that's just me  I HATE seeing those BFN's!!
KUP!
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2005
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Thanks for the advice everyone! Just to answer a few questions, I was suggested to wait, but I decided why wait, I can't, I just want to have another baby. I have read tons on info on conceiving right away and there are views to support waiting and not waiting. I know that I am emotionally ready and as for my body, I'm hoping that if it wasn't ready I just wouldn't get pregnant. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. I took a test last night that was negative. That way I at least know my levels are down! We'll see if anything shows up in the next week, if not then maybe I'll test again!
Thanks for all your support!
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My two beautiful babies!!
Talon Joseph Born: December 17, 2005 8 pounds 2 oz.
Kaylee Jo Born: December 6, 2006 7 pounds 11 oz.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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Good luck ttcing and I hope you dont have to try for long! I am glad you took a HPT.
Thats all I did to monitor my levels. I never had a blood BHCG after any of the 5 loss's I have had. They were not Molars so no biggy.
I *think* I may have oed I will know in a couple days and IF I did then af is comeing in about 12 days I can ttc! I am a wee bit excited it has been 5 and half weeks now.
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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