[dee68]

Many of you know that I have been a part of this board for almost a year now....and have made some wonderful friends.
this was ALWAYS a comfortable, friendly board....
what the heck has happened?? bickering,rudeness,closing threads,removing posts.....this is NOT the TTCAL I LOVED for so long and it makes me sad!

I have stepped back a bit since the whole PG talk drama awhile back,(but its still in full force here and that makes me shake my head to.) I stepped down as chat host, which I LOVED, since I felt with all of the drama,and the way SO many ladies voiced there opinions of pg gals should "move on"... a PG gal shouldnt have been hosting, but rather someone who was TTC....
and PG mentioned isnt always in the topic like the RULES said....whats up with that?

I sometimes cant help but feel a few were actually targeted, and now that we have kind of left, its a different story.
I do hope that everyone gets their BFP's here........and am looking forward to have you post on PAL.
I just hope that this board can go back to being drama free soon.....

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I just want to mention that I have never had a problem with the pg women posting here. I love to hear the updates. I was out of town when that whole topic was started and removed. I too hate all the drama. I've always loved that this was such a supportive, fun loving group of women (ttc or pg) We all got along fine. I want that back. I will be glad when this board gets back to "normal"

[dee68]

I just want to mention that I have never had a problem with the pg women posting here. I love to hear the updates. I was out of town when that whole topic was started and removed. I too hate all the drama. I've always loved that this was such a supportive, fun loving group of women (ttc or pg) We all got along fine. I want that back. I will be glad when this board gets back to "normal"[/b]

thats what I'm screamin'.....LOL

[katiegirl]

Don't get me wrong. I love to hear all the updated from our graduates

But....

I can understand how difficult it can be for the ladies that are new to this board
they are not familiar with everyone.
I know that when I first started posting I was so raw with emotion from having recently miscarried
that is KILLED me to see ladies using this board to speak about their current pregnancies.

I do think that if you do post about pregnancy it MUST be in the post so that it can be skipped by those
still hurting.
Or the Graduates Subforum needs to be used more regularly.

Hopefully once our Hosts are back full-time this board will be a little more normal.

I love all you ladies and do not mean to offend any of you.

[dee68]

Don't get me wrong. I love to hear all the updated from our graduates

But....

I can understand how difficult it can be for the ladies that are new to this board
they are not familiar with everyone.
I know that when I first started posting I was so raw with emotion from having recently miscarried
that is KILLED me to see ladies using this board to speak about their current pregnancies.

I do think that if you do post about pregnancy it MUST be in the post so that it can be skipped by those
still hurting.
Or the Graduates Subforum needs to be used more regularly.

Hopefully once our Hosts are back full-time this board will be a little more normal.

I love all you ladies and do not mean to offend any of you.[/b]

Katie,
I totally agree with ya
thats why I think we did back off a bit, and I did try to keep the pg talk to a min. in chat...
I dont want this to be a debate or anything...I just had to let it out how I felt
and yep, hosts would help!!! they def. need to post some topics to discuss !!!!!

[Frozendesire]

You know, I was thinking. This isn't saying that I don't like the pg posts in the forum cause really I don't mind, I did... but not any more. At all!

But with that said... I think the graduate section should be used ALOT more then it has! Why don't you pg ladies use that as your "DDC" or whatever. I mean what a great way to keep in touch and we can always step in there as well. Plus then all our graduates are all in one place!!

I am from the WTTC board and our WTTC Graduate section is booming with ladies that have done just that, graduated on to TTC. They didn't go to TTC #1 or TTC (Or they did that AS WELL AS), they stayed with their friends.

Those are just my thoughts and I mean NO harm by them. I kinda wish all of you ladies would post more in the graduate section so I could join up there when it's my time and go through my pg with you ladies!

I don't mind them being posted on here. I understand the friendships are strong in here and that is totally fine and totally understandable!

[dee68]

You know, I was thinking. This isn't saying that I don't like the pg posts in the forum cause really I don't mind, I did... but not any more. At all!

But with that said... I think the graduate section should be used ALOT more then it has! Why don't you pg ladies use that as your "DDC" or whatever. I mean what a great way to keep in touch and we can always step in there as well. Plus then all our graduates are all in one place!!

I am from the WTTC board and our WTTC Graduate section is booming with ladies that have done just that, graduated on to TTC. They didn't go to TTC #1 or TTC (Or they did that AS WELL AS), they stayed with their friends.

Those are just my thoughts and I mean NO harm by them. I kinda wish all of you ladies would post more in the graduate section so I could join up there when it's my time and go through my pg with you ladies!

I don't mind them being posted on here. I understand the friendships are strong in here and that is totally fine and totally understandable![/b]

it is supposed to be used for that reason....
I don't use it at all anymore, I do my updating on PAL