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May 23rd, 2008, 01:23 PM
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Let's all pledge no more bickering, fussing, fighting, ugly comments....etc.

We are all here for a reason. We have all lost something very precious to us. We have formed some amazing friendships here and helped each other along the way. Whether you are ttc or already pg, we all came here for similar reasons...we all lost a baby. We all have hard enough times coping with that. We come here for support, answers, prayers, and someone who understands. I love you girls all the same. You are each a dear friend to me.

What do you say? I think all this drama needs to end. We don't want any of us uncomfortable or any newcomers to feel that way.

All pg ladies: in my opinion, you are all welcome here. I love to hear the updates. We have all gotten to know each of you personally. It's like we are all family. Plus, it gives me hope that it will happen for me one day.

So, what do you think? Please add anything I might have left out.
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May 23rd, 2008, 01:25 PM
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I do agree I miss the ladies that have left already and I wish things were a little smoother around here.

I love our pregnant ladies!!! I hope the ladies that have been for a while and those that get their BFP today, tomorrow etc will all stick around

I think having knowledgeable, been there done that hosts is JUST fine!

We need all the support we can get!! So lets just stick together and have some fun peeing on things I'm sure that's what Bobbie would say! haha.

I know I'm new here, but I'm getting very comfortable here and I am just feeling more and more like this place is home
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May 23rd, 2008, 01:27 PM
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Yes, that's what this place is to a lot of us. Home I for one won't leave when I get my bfp. Let's just have fun and be here for each other. And have some laughs along the way.
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May 23rd, 2008, 01:30 PM
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I agree with that all. I wish everyone would just get along.

I really think that having an extra co-host wouldn't hurt though. We get so much traffic on this board. There are a couple people who are here during the day enouh that would be great co-hosts in addition to the two ladies we have now...
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May 23rd, 2008, 01:32 PM
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I totally agree with you there. That's a great idea. Maybe they will do that.
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:09 PM
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I agree i really wish everyone would jsut get along. I'm not sure who left the board as i do need to catch up on things around here. i will be on tomorrow for sure and will get caught up as much as i can. But i want everyone to get a long and if you have a problem please message me and i will try my best to take care of it.
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:10 PM
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We don't need three hosts...we just need active hosts IMO.

Anyways.... I found my ignore button today and have to say it gave me a sense of peace knowing I can now come here and not see or hear the drama that sometimes pops up. You all should try it if someone rubs you the wrong way
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On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. She was our 8th loss Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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May 23rd, 2008, 02:12 PM
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Let's all pledge no more bickering, fussing, fighting, ugly comments....etc.

We are all here for a reason. We have all lost something very precious to us. We have formed some amazing friendships here and helped each other along the way. Whether you are ttc or already pg, we all came here for similar reasons...we all lost a baby. We all have hard enough times coping with that. We come here for support, answers, prayers, and someone who understands. I love you girls all the same. You are each a dear friend to me.

What do you say? I think all this drama needs to end. We don't want any of us uncomfortable or any newcomers to feel that way.

All pg ladies: in my opinion, you are all welcome here. I love to hear the updates. We have all gotten to know each of you personally. It's like we are all family. Plus, it gives me hope that it will happen for me one day.

So, what do you think? Please add anything I might have left out.[/b]
Very well put !
I don't think you left out anything !!
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:12 PM
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Where do I find that button? Just Pm me Bobbie!
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:13 PM
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We don't need three hosts...we just need active hosts IMO.

Anyways.... I found my ignore button today and have to say it gave me a sense of peace knowing I can now come here and not see or hear the drama that sometimes pops up. You all should try it if someone rubs you the wrong way [/b]
uh huh... uh huh!

I can't find that button...lol
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Anyways.... I found my ignore button today and have to say it gave me a sense of peace knowing I can now come here and not see or hear the drama that sometimes pops up. You all should try it if someone rubs you the wrong way [/b]
Ignore button??? Where is that?
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:14 PM
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I have enjoyed getting to know everyone and would be sad if we had to leave when we get our BFP. We're all grown ups so I hope that there are no further problems.

I use the ignore button too
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:16 PM
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I found it! Awesome! Thanks that's a relief
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:18 PM
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It's under my controls.... I think... it says manage ignored users something or another.
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On 1/31/12 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
On August 2, 2012 we lost Sarah at 17 weeks. She was our 8th loss Her pictures can be viewed at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarahdarrohn
There is no known explanation for my losses.

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May 23rd, 2008, 02:19 PM
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Is there such a thing?

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May 23rd, 2008, 02:21 PM
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Yep

My controls
manage ignored users
add new ignored user
type person's screenname
update

When that person makes a post, it will ask you if you want to view it or not. Cool!!!!!
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May 23rd, 2008, 02:30 PM
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Yep

My controls
manage ignored users
add new ignored user
type person's screenname
update

When that person makes a post, it will ask you if you want to view it or not. Cool!!!!![/b]
SWWWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET !!!!
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May 23rd, 2008, 03:27 PM
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What do you say? I think all this drama needs to end. We don't want any of us uncomfortable or any newcomers to feel that way.[/b]
i have to agree with this, i know i havnt been a member here very long and i am really sorry if i am speaking out of line here, but i kinda feel uncomfy sometimes when it seems everyone argues -hence why i am more of a lurker than a poster. and i would much rather be a regular poster sorry again if im upsetting anyone by saying that
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May 23rd, 2008, 03:38 PM
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Michelle that is very well written. I want to take this time to tell all of you girls, that im very sorry!!

You all mean the world to me, and this place is my home and my family. theres nothing that i wouldnt do for you all.

I think we all should agree with Michelle and what she has wrote. Thanks Michelle.

I will be around now, as i have figured out some stuff...Thanks girls for everything!!

Thats why i love this group and you girls!!

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May 23rd, 2008, 04:03 PM
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Count me in!

I will have to look into that ignore button
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