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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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For the last month and a half almost, I have been getting hcg after hcg draw, waiting for the levels to drop... and they haven't. Up and down, from 27 to 50... back and forth.
So, last Wednesday (A week and a half ago), I was given a shot of methotrexate, which should have cleared me out... another blood draw... 50 something. Up from the 37 it was 2 weeks previous.
So, the doctor said I want you to come in and take an hpt... and I said: Do you want me to take one NOW??? (And explained that I was a POAS-aholic and she laughed...
still a  
Now, u/s and appt on Wednesday to figure out if there is tissue that needs to be removed. If there is, I'll have to schedule a d & c (I am very nervous to get one... I don't want to do surgery)
I definitely need some t & p from you ladies that there is some normal resolution to this. I feel like shaking my body, I swear! This is NOT what I meant when I said "Get pg and STAY pg..."
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
Posts: 8,212
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I'm so sorry Jenn! I hope they can figure out what's going on with you. If you have to do a D&C, it'll be okay. I was so scard when I had mine. Mine was easy.(physically) I don't remember anything! I recovered physically very quickly. I hope they won't have to, but if they do and you have any questions please feel free to pm me. You will be in my t&p. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
Posts: 3,593
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Jenn
I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you have a *normal* resolution, but if not and you do need a D&C, like Michelle said, it's not too bad. I was worried about it but it was actually a relatively easy procedure (not emotionally, of course, but physically)
Anyways, I hope it doesn't come to that.
KUP
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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Jen Im really sorry youre going through this hun I really hope that they have good answers on Wed hun.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I just really don't want a d & c... I finally told my mom that I was having issues and she took it better than I thought, that way she came come and take care of me maybe if I need one.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,518
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Oh man that stinks.... I hope everything turns out okay and fast 
LOL about the staying pregnant 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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I hope it all turns out ok for you. I'll be thinking about you.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Chi-town suburbs
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Your in my prayers.
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
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I'm so sorry girl i hope that nature will takes its course so you don't have to get the dredded d&c! Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Long Beach, CA
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I hope everything turns out okay for you! I know I was terrified about possibly needing a D & C, so I can understand how you feel (I cope well with emotional pain, but when it comes to physical pain I'm a bit of a weenie). Hopefully the doctors will have some good answers for you soon. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: St. John's Newfoundland
Posts: 5,748
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Awe man!! Jenn i really hope your body does whats right!
Im thinking about ya. and i hope you get the answers you need.
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: ~*West Coast of BC Canada*~
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Prayin you dont need the d&c!!! (I was also scared, I had never even had an IV in my life! It only took about 10 minutes, and I was fine Physically.. Not emotionally of course, as I had jus lost the baby 10-15 mins before the procedure..
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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im so so sorry hun. i was terrified at the thought of a d&c but was lucky and didnt need it. i pray you get the same result
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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I am so very sorry ((hugs)) I dreaded getting d&c's I have 3 all for hemeraging but it not that bad I swear but I so understand not wanting one. I hope you dont have to have one good luck!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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I am so very sorry ((hugs)) I dreaded getting d&c's I have 3 all for hemeraging but it not that bad I swear but I so understand not wanting one. I hope you dont have to have one good luck!
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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Mega Super Mom2Morgan
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: South Africa
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oh jenn im so sorry!!! i really hope things work out for the best...
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
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I've had a D&C and a natural miscarriage, and the D&C was a lot easier. If you do need a D&C, it will be okay. I had a D&E last fall for my second tri loss, and I was scared to death of that, but it ended up being okay too. I do understand being scared though. I hope it gets better soon.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope you get some answers soon.
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