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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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How long has everyone been ttcing?
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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I went off the BCP In mid January, mid cycle. I got pregnant after two AF's, end of March. I lost that little one the beginning of April. I have had one AF since then.
What about you?
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Las Vegas
Posts: 6,352
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DH & I started trying in June 2007. We had our first m/c in November 2007. We tried again soon after and conceived a few months later. We lost that baby in April 2008.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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oh right I should add me LOL.
I am still waiting on first af since 17w induction April 15th its been almost 6 weeks and ttcing as soon s first af shows!
Steph, I live in The Okanagan valley and take our Holidays on Vancouver Island plus we go reguar for 8 month old Isaiah's kidny check up at childrens. He has bilatreal hydronephroses (water on the kidneys)
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 3,071
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ttc since jan 08, got pg in feb and m/c in march. waited 1 cycle for af to show, and still ttc now.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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Linda, I hope this next time wont take too long for you!
Irene, I really hope that AF shows up soon for you! I'm sorry to hear about your little one, are things getting better or is it something that can, sorry I'm unfamiliar. I live in the Lower Mainland. It's so beautiful in the Okanagan. I am so very jealous! My friend lives in Kelowna, and I have a sister in Salmon Arm. I would like to move there some day
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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I am getting a blood clot disorder panel blood work done on Thursday. I have 3 dr looking at me they are sleptical its the blood clot disorder. Thats the last thing they can can think of to what happened both times babies were genetically normal.
They told me the risk is not any higher to happen again as the next lady so we shall see.
Pound I really hope you get your BFP soon!
I acually live 20 min from Salmon Arm on the Shuswap river  . They way houses cost these days noone can afford to move here anymore
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
Posts: 39,661
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I'm not actually TTC right now. I WAS waiting until September, but now DH doesn't seem to think so...
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
Posts: 13,484
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We have been trying for 6 months going on 7 months. Seems like forever though
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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((hugs)) I seen that post Brittanie.
I sure hope he changes his mind. He kinda dumped this on you all in one shot. I wonder if he is just haveing a overwhelming week is all. I hope you dont plan to leave us any time soon  Hopefully whatever triggered his thinking will change and he will come around. ((hugs))
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 3,071
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thanks steph and irene. steph i hope you get good news later next week!!
irene, i hope you find out if there was something w/ your blood, but if it's not that good news! my dr said most m/c are due to genetic problems, and nature blah blah blah. that was what happened w/ me too.
brittanie- oh no! i'll go read your post. =(
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
Posts: 39,661
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((hugs)) I seen that post Brittanie.
I sure hope he changes his mind. He kinda dumped this on you all in one shot. I wonder if he is just haveing a overwhelming week is all. I hope you dont plan to leave us any time soon Hopefully whatever triggered his thinking will change and he will come around. ((hugs))[/b]
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Nope, you guys are stuck with me! =Þ
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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well we officially started trying in november but were not really preventing since august (i was on the pill but both aware it doesnt work for me)
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
Posts: 22,466
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We started TTC in March of 2006.  We've had three (all very early) losses in that time that we know for sure and I suspect many more chemicals. I'm the only person I know that can get 5 or 6 "evaps" nearly every month for two years.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: St. John's Newfoundland
Posts: 5,748
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I was trying for 2 + years....and many heartaches that followed. 2 Stillbirths in that 2 years..And finally a healthy baby coming now!!
It will happen, just in time.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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We have been trying since dd turned 1, so 2 years now, but I didn't use any OPK's or that kind of stuff until after my Feb. m/c.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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We stoped BC in Jan 08, got our BFP in Feb, m/c in march, then got another bfp in May. Hoping this one sticks.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 834
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We have been TTC since March 2007. This is our first month of TTC after the 3rd m/c.
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Nicole
Me: 33
DH: 32
TTC 3/07
m/c - 7/29/07 (5w4d)
m/c - 10/8/07 (6w4d)
m/c - 2/27/08 (11w5d)
m/c - 6/20/08 (7w2d)
9/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, not enough mature follies
10/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, ovulated on my own
12/08 - IVF w/ PGD: BFP!
Owen Royce...born August 28, 2009
1/10 IVF w/ PGD: 1 egg fertilized, so no PGD
1/30/10 Transferred in one embryo
2/13/10 - BFP!
Georgia Elle...born October 15, 2010
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Florida
Posts: 2,069
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m/c on 11/2/07. Waited one full cycle and tried in December and January. February and March we weren't REALLY trying, and now i've been trying again in April and May.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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Began TTC June 2007 (so almost a year now)
Miscarriage Sept 2007
Trying again since Oct 2007
So we are on cycle #8 this time around.
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