Eeek!! Help

princesskate · #1 May 24th, 2008, 05:49 AM

Me and mark were in bed playing rudies (sorry, dont know what your abbreivation is lol) and usually he pulls out but last night he didnt. I am on the methotrexate 3 month wait and i am on the birth control pill. but....5 out of 6 of my pregnancies i was on the pill when i got pregnant. i am so scared i will have got pregnant again whilst i am still on the 3mw and will have to terminate the pregnancy

what are the chances of me getting pregnant

madmum_sarah · #2 May 24th, 2008, 06:31 AM

do you know where you are in your cycle hun? i wish i could give some advice but 3 of mine were conceived on the pill and im on it now but stil Oing.
i hope everything works out for the best though hun and that someone can give you some advice
xx

Alison81 · #3 May 24th, 2008, 06:52 AM

I also get pregnant on the pill, and ovulate on it. I'm not sure what the chances are. I know they probably wouldn't give you the morning after pill either because you are already on the pill. Do you know what point of your cycle you're at? Are you at the fertile time in your cycle?

princesskate · #4 May 24th, 2008, 08:43 AM

im on day 11 of my cycle, and i average at about 26 days, and according to this period/ovulation tracker site i use i will be fertile as of tomorrow, but not O till the 29th may. but i have no idea if i actually ovulate everytime while in on the pill. i am so scared

madmum_sarah · #5 May 24th, 2008, 08:47 AM

hmmm. not like you can even call the doc today for advice is it

i really dont know what to suggest hun. hope and pray? lol
will keep everything crossed for you darling. much as i would love to say i hope you do catch it, this time i really hope you dont. not this soon

xxx

princesskate · #6 May 24th, 2008, 08:50 AM

i know, the docs is closed untill tuesday now. i am hoping and praying with all my might. sorry this may be TMI but it was only a tiny bit....he pulled out as soon as he realised what he was doing, but still some went inside me. sorry thats the nicest way i can put it

madmum_sarah · #7 May 24th, 2008, 08:53 AM

hunny we have seen WAY more tmi than that on here but i cant help laughing when i read it, you sound like a naughty schoolgirl!

sorry to laugh hun cos i know this is serious but i cant help it. what a cutie you are!

il be praying for you sweetheart

princesskate · #8 May 24th, 2008, 09:07 AM

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hunny we have seen WAY more tmi than that on here but i cant help laughing when i read it, you sound like a naughty schoolgirl!

sorry to laugh hun cos i know this is serious but i cant help it. what a cutie you are!

il be praying for you sweetheart[/b]

well, i get embarrassed (sp?) easily

i know how serious this is too, im looked all over the net on what would happen with a baby if i was to be pregnant so soon after the methotrxate, but i cant find anything

madmum_sarah · #9 May 24th, 2008, 10:02 AM

http://www.motherisk.org/prof/commonDetail...?content_id=215

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To Jennifer Sept 24: I would recommend waiting at least 3-6 months after an ectopic pregnancy treated with methotrexate. Having had one ectopic pregnancy, you are at much increased risk for having another. It is also VERY unpredictable when you will ovulate again. It is unusual to get pregnant within a month of treatment, but it COULD happen. Remember, you can get pregnant again as soon as you start ovulating, even if you have not had a period. I strongly recommend some form of reliable contraception for awhile before you tro to conceive and I would NOT recommend leaving things up to chance! Thanks for reading. Dr T[/b]

dont know if this will help hun but at least you know you are not the only one to go through it

a lot of stuff i cam across spoke about the deformities of a baby if conceived early after the meds, mainly skull deformities but there are few cases of healthy full term babies from mums who were put on high risk
xx

~DaemonMykailasMum~ · #10 May 24th, 2008, 10:31 AM

Hey girl, I dont know what methotroxate is, and Ive never taken BC in my life, so I know im NO help in that department

But I just want you to know that Im thinkin of you and Im prayin that it goes how you want it to go! xoxoxoxo

princesskate · #11 May 24th, 2008, 11:21 AM

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http://www.motherisk.org/prof/commonDetail...?content_id=215

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To Jennifer Sept 24: I would recommend waiting at least 3-6 months after an ectopic pregnancy treated with methotrexate. Having had one ectopic pregnancy, you are at much increased risk for having another. It is also VERY unpredictable when you will ovulate again. It is unusual to get pregnant within a month of treatment, but it COULD happen. Remember, you can get pregnant again as soon as you start ovulating, even if you have not had a period. I strongly recommend some form of reliable contraception for awhile before you tro to conceive and I would NOT recommend leaving things up to chance! Thanks for reading. Dr T[/b]

dont know if this will help hun but at least you know you are not the only one to go through it

a lot of stuff i cam across spoke about the deformities of a baby if conceived early after the meds, mainly skull deformities but there are few cases of healthy full term babies from mums who were put on high risk
xx
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thanks for that hun. the stuff i read also said things about spinal problems, as methotrexate blocks floic acid. well i think thats what it said, it was in confusing medical jargon

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Hey girl, I dont know what methotroxate is, and Ive never taken BC in my life, so I know im NO help in that department

But I just want you to know that Im thinkin of you and Im prayin that it goes how you want it to go! xoxoxoxo[/b]

thank you. methotrxate is a drug used to treat ectopic pregnancies as an alternative to surgery hun x

jennntj13 · #12 May 24th, 2008, 11:33 AM

How far into the 3MW are you??

I have read that methotrexate only stays in your system for 20 days... has it been over a month??? How many injections did you receive, one or two?

I am not 100% positive, but I was also treated w/ methotrexate... I would probably call the doctor and see what they tell you.

princesskate · #13 May 24th, 2008, 12:04 PM

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How far into the 3MW are you??

I have read that methotrexate only stays in your system for 20 days... has it been over a month??? How many injections did you receive, one or two?

I am not 100% positive, but I was also treated w/ methotrexate... I would probably call the doctor and see what they tell you.[/b]

hiya, i had the methotrexate on the 17th march, and the hcg reched non pregnant levels on the 31st. I cant call the doctor till tuesday due to the bank holiday but believe me i will be on the phone first thing tuesday morning x

ETA - i just had one injection

jennntj13 · #14 May 24th, 2008, 12:21 PM

So you are over 2 months from the injection? I think IF those spermies catch an eggie on the BCP that you would be ok. I have seen posts of people who have gotten pg after the shot outside of jm are had h & h babies, so I think you'd be ok... but I would definitely check w/ the doctor. Do they have an answering service for a doctor on call? Maybe you could double check w/ them in the meantime...