Today is the day AF was due. Five days ago I got a BFP with two line tests and confirmed with a digital. I just went to the bathroom and I'm bleeding. Like AF bleeding. Not spotting, not "looking for it", FREAKING bleeding. I've had AF cramps today too but I had those last time and AF never showed so I thought that's what it was. What just happened??? I'm so confused.

I think I'll go somewhere and cry for a while...........

Edited to add....


I just read up on Chemical Pregnancies and I'm SO excited that I get to tell my DH all about this when he gets home. Wonderful.

I vow to never test again until AF is freaking late! Maybe by a week... or two...

[jademyst13]

I'm sorry hun

[~DaemonMykailasMum~]

Im so sorry...

[madmum_sarah]

there is 2 sides to this.
1) it could be a chemical pregnancy which i have had more than one of and it hurts just as much emotionally
OR
2) it could be that you are just clearing away the blood that has built up.
i bled every month for the first trimester with dd and she is a happy little 3 yr old now.
some people do have what appears to be af every month but all is well.
i pray for you that it is the second option but please go and get checked out as soon as poss.
do you have any tests left? with my first chemical i had bfp one day and neg as soon as i started bleeding.
good luck and sticky dust to you
xxx

Thanks ladies..

Sarah... I feel like it's just better to not have any hope. I would test but DH took the car and it has the extra tests in it. Plus they are digitals and I hate to waste them.

Worst part... I noticed the "feeling" right as he was pulling out of the driveway to go hang out with his friends on the other side of the city, about 1 1/2 hours away. I didn't want him to not go so I didn't say anything and planned to tell him later. We haven't been telling many people, just our CLOSEST friends. He texted me to ask if he could tell my brother who went with him. I didn't want to tell him what was happening but just needed to make sure he didn't tell anybody else. So I told him. I feel really bad because now he's got to carry that with him all day!

Plus, Dahlia is going to be up soon. I told my SIL I would hang out with her once our kids were done with their naps... I don't want to leave the house.. in fact I want to go and curl up in my bed and sleep...

I need a Coke and can't leave!

[dojodiva]

((HUGS)) I am so sorry. I had a chemical pg several years ago so I understand what you're feeling. I am so sorry this happened to you.

[madmum_sarah]

i totally understand hun. i really hope you get some answers soon and that your dh can handle it until he can be with you again
xx

[jennntj13]

I am so sorry... I hope you get everything worked out soon... Big

[mommy jenn]

oh im so sorry... im having the same issue. i tested after spotting started and i just know how this is going to end... its just not fair!! i hate this game!! ttc is not easy at allll

Jenn,

I was reading your post earlier this morning and thinking how much that would suck.

Sorry you are going through this too...

[princesskate]

[Mommy2Makenna]

I'm so sorry!

[HavensMomma]

I'll keep you in my t&p's.

[ShannonMVT]

I am so sorry hon (for both of you) I hope it works out. I know you are worried and scared right now.

[ChattyAshley]

[Bakin8th]

I am so sorry for both of you I hope things work out.