Put on hold

#1 May 27th, 2008, 10:18 AM

I just talked to my OB. She's not really sure what's going on but was at least sympathetic to my loss. She wants to do an ultrasound to check out my uterus and see what's going on in there. That's scheduled for this Friday. Unfortunately she wants us to wait to TTC for a few months. Even typing that makes me want to just cry. I've always wanted my kids to be really close together and we'll be celebrating Dahlia's 2nd birthday in August. Not exactly going as planned. I know, it's for the best, God's timing, blah blah blah. It's still just hard to accept!

I'll let you guys know what I find out friday.

dojodiva · #2 May 27th, 2008, 10:20 AM

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry you have to wait. I hope you get some good answers, though, that will help you get another BFP as soon as possible.

jennntj13 · #3 May 27th, 2008, 10:26 AM

Glad that you got to talk to the doc and she was nice, but I am sorry that you have to wait a few more days for answers and that you won't be able to ttc as soon as you'd like. Hopefully, you will get some good results from the u/s, make sure you KUP! I will keep you in my t & p!

HavensMomma · #4 May 27th, 2008, 10:29 AM

Sorry you have to wait. I know how you feel, I wanted my kids to be close too and Haven turns 2 in june

I'll keep you in my T&P's and hope you get some good results from your u/s.

~DaemonMykailasMum~ · #5 May 27th, 2008, 10:34 AM

So sorry you have to wait

I know hw ya feel on wanting your babies to be close in age... I was all excited to be pg again, My baby was due Dec 4th or 5th, Daemon would have been 2 yrs 2 mths.. I was stoked.. But..Unfortunately "It wasnt gods plan" I guess

Hopefully you get good results from the u/s and u can ttc sooner!

kellyanne · #6 May 27th, 2008, 10:53 AM

I'm so sorry that you are put on hold.....and I know exactly how you feel. My daughter turns 2 in July and I had it all planned out that mine would be just over 2 years apart. Now I'm just hoping for another (and if I do get a sticky bean, they'll be closer to 3 years apart). I am glad, however, that you have an OB who seems to be proactive.

Eleysia · #7 May 27th, 2008, 11:02 AM

Im sorry she told you to wait, i do hope you get good results from your u/s though. Maybe they will do the u/s and change their minds. I sure hope so. Good luck hun.

#8 May 27th, 2008, 11:07 AM

Thanks ladies!

I had this dream to be pg again when Dahlia turned 1 or to have the second kid by the time she was 2 at the latest... so not working out.

I could have gone in tomorrow afternoon but it would be cutting it close on naptime for Dahlia and I want to wait a few more days for the bleeding to stop. Hopefully something good comes out of Friday.

This m/c is actually more painful physically than the last one!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #9 May 27th, 2008, 12:41 PM

I'm so sorry you're going through this again. I hope you will get some answers on friday. Hopefully they will give you the go ahead to ttc again. Please KUP. You are in my t&p. I hope the bleeding and pain lets up soon for you.