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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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I dreamed right before I woke up about getting a BFP and showing it to Dh.
I guess all I'll ever have is a dream because I got another BFN. 
I just don't know how I can take this happening, month after month after month...
Apparently all the lucky opks, lucky tests and perfect BDing mean absolutely nothing when it comes to my body.
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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oh sweetheart im so sorry  
it is still early though so please dont give up hope
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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I'm so sorry Shannon! I know how you feel. I just hope it's too early.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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Oh Shannon, I'm sorry It migh be too early to for it show. Don't give up just yet, I bet you'll get that  In a couple of days.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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Don't give up yet! I tested like 5 BFN's before I got my BFP with the last m/c... it could just be too early. You'll get there. I know it seems like an eternity, but you will get there! (I think God just tests our patience because I know you need LOTS of patience when you have kids and dh's...  )
I'll be waiting for the pic of a bfp soon! Big Hugs!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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I'm sorry sweety Maybe it was too early?
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Member
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 48
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I completely understand. I feel the same. I am approximately 11 dpo today and have not convinced myself to take a test because I'm scared it will be BFN again. So, I'm going to try to wait until Monday or Tuesday to test.
Funny, the month that I got pregnant and miscarried, I didn't even know or think I was pregnant. Now, every month I really feel that I'm pregnant and then I get that BFN.
But, I know if I'm meant to be a mom again that it will happen. Good luck to all of us waiting on our BFP, and I hope the day comes sooner than later.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Chi-town suburbs
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don't give up. It's still super early. You didn't temp this month, so I don't know how many DPO you are exactly, but your chart says you got a + OPK on 14th day of your cycle, so you may not have even ovulated until the 15th day. Which would only put you 8-9 DPO. That is so super early.
I understand how you feel, I have been testing the last 2 days (8-9 DPO) and gotten negatives, and It's still discouraging. Keep your chin up, it will happen.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Washington
Posts: 6,164
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Sorry hun It could still be too early, it's not over till the witch shows!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Indpls
Posts: 2,517
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Sorry for the BFN Shannon
I agree with the other ladies it is still very early
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: ~*West Coast of BC Canada*~
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Hey girl I jus checked out your chart, It definitely could be too early still, if you O'd on cd 14 or 15, you'd be 11 or 12 dpo right? Theres a girl on my other board who never gets bfps till lik ATLEAST 14 or 15 dpo.. Dont give up hope yet!!! xoxoxoxooxox 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
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I'm so sorry, I really hope it's just because it's too early
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Veteran
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: danbury tx
Posts: 146
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dont give up, i have everything crossed for you! how many dpo are you? do you have any symptoms?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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I hope it is just too early Shannon. I didnt get mine until 15-16 DPO this time.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Bristol, England, UK
Posts: 7,175
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I dreamt i had a BFP last time and in the morning i didnt....then 2 days later BFP....its not over yet! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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I dreamt i had a BFP last time and in the morning i didnt....then 2 days later BFP....its not over yet! [/b]
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Wow that is cool.
I am pretty sure I Oed on CD 14 because I had O cramps. So I think I'm 11 dpo. Last time I got a pretty clear BFP on 12 dpo and I bet it would have showed up earlier if I had tested earlier.
So I don't know. Did anyone ever have a BFP show up early for one pregnancy but show up late for another?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 3,312
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I'm sorry Shannon!!!
I'm w/ the other girls though, it may just be too early. I tested BFN on 10dpo too, and 11, and it looked BFN to start w/ on 12dpo too. Give it another day or two, I'm really praying and hoping to see your BFP by then.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Florida
Posts: 2,069
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Shannon, I'm so sorry! I know how much we think about "I'll tell DH on Father's day" or "This would be a GREAT opportunity to tell the family". I still hope that it is just too soon. Hang in there girl. It WILL happen for you!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 4,478
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((HUGS)) I understand how you feel. Hang in there...it ain't over till it's over!  I'm 11 or 12 DPO today and have been testing every day since Monday...all BFNs...so if the witch shows here I'll hold her hostage & keep her away from you, OK?
My pg in January (with twins) I got a negative at 11 DPO and tested again at 15 DPO and got a super faint positive. They weren't really dark until 17 or 18 DPO. I used the internet cheapies and even though they're supposed to be really sensitive the line seems to be super light. So hang in there.
It took me 3 years to become a mom, and as much as the journey sucked and I would never wish it on anyone, I can tell you that you will find the strength to try again if this month isn't it, and you'll be amazed at how strong you can be. As weird as it seems, having to "fight" for this will bring you and DH closer together. And when you do become a mother you'll appreciate your baby so much and not take things for granted. Vent here anytime you need to. My fingers are still crossed and I'm still hoping this is your month!!
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