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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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I had been having 14 day luteal phases but I started spotting yesterday at 13 dpo. I guess it technically doesn't count as AF since it's brown spotting. I tested and got another BFN. Still spotting today...I wish she would just show up and get this over with.  I don't know what the heck is up with these 2 days of spotting. I've had AF take her time like this before, but not for awhile now.
I don't know if I'll be around here quite as much. I love keeping up with everyone on here, but in all honesty it's getting harder and harder to see everyone getting their BFPs. I feel like it gets to be everyone else, but not me. It's starting to make me feel stressed like something is wrong with me that everyone else can get pregnant and I can't.
Hopefully the RE visit will give me some answers...but I still have to wait over 3 weeks for that.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Texas
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((HUGS)) I'm so sorry. I understand what you mean...please feel free to PM me anytime...I've been in your shoes.
BTW, before you go to the RE I highly recommend reading Dr. Marr's Fertility Book. It goes over lots of tests, protocal, etc., along with the emotional aspects of TTC with fertility issues. It was my bible when I underwent treatment...hope it helps you.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
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I know sometimes it is hard seeing everyone getting their bfp's when you keep getting a bfn. Keep your head up and stay strong, you will get yours!
Maybe the spotting is IB??? KUP and I will keep my fingers crossed for you!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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 I'm sorry you feel this way.
I understand, I sometimes feel the same way, why does everybody get their bfps and I'm not. It's hard not to let it get to you. You can also pm anytime you need to talk.
Maybe it's IB, until it fully shows up, you can getyour bfp, hang in there. You'll see how the 3 weeks will go very fast. KUP
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Chi-town suburbs
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I'm so sorry, but I totally understand. I really made myself believe this was my month, and although I still have a chance, I'm expecting AF to come by tuesday morning. Every month gets harder. and I really haven't been trying for that long. TTC is consuming me. I don't begrudge anyones BFP and I am happy for them, but then just sad that I don't get to join them.
But the one thing I do know, is that when you hold that baby in your arms, you will be so happy that you did get pregnant on THAT cycle. Try to keep your chin up. I hope you can get some answers soon.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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Quote:
I had been having 14 day luteal phases but I started spotting yesterday at 13 dpo. I guess it technically doesn't count as AF since it's brown spotting. I tested and got another BFN. Still spotting today...I wish she would just show up and get this over with. I don't know what the heck is up with these 2 days of spotting. I've had AF take her time like this before, but not for awhile now.
I don't know if I'll be around here quite as much. I love keeping up with everyone on here, but in all honesty it's getting harder and harder to see everyone getting their BFPs. I feel like it gets to be everyone else, but not me. It's starting to make me feel stressed like something is wrong with me that everyone else can get pregnant and I can't.
Hopefully the RE visit will give me some answers...but I still have to wait over 3 weeks for that.[/b]
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I just sent you a PM, but just wanted to say  to everything you said!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Oklahoma City
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Shannon, I'm right there with you, AF showed today for me. I can't hardly stand to be on this board or any JM boards right now. I love everyone here but it just hurts too bad, especially with my due date coming up 2 weeks from tomorrow.
Take care and PM any time! 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
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Oh, Shannon! I'm sorry, hun! I understand what your talking about, I felt the same way. It will happen for you!! Please don't be too much of a stranger! I'd miss you!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
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((((HUGS)))))
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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oh shannon im sorry you are feeling like this but it could be late implantation thats giving you the spotting and not af.
im praying for you sweetheart and please remember we are all here for you whenever you need or want us
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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Shannon, I'm sorry AF is jacking with you. I know exactly how you feel. Know that I am here for you, always!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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Well, she is here this morning. 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Ohhh Shannon, I'm sorry she showed.
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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grrrr evil witch!
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