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June 5th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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He said last night "I really think that we should wait until after I graduate and have a real job. That way we won't be pregnant and unemployed if I can't get a job right away...and we won't have to worry about insurance stuff, because we'll KNOW what's going on."


It makes sense. It really does.



But that doesn't mean I don't still want to get pregnant right now.
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June 5th, 2008, 08:47 AM
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I hate when men actually have a point, it's a good one and it makes sense
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June 5th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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June 5th, 2008, 09:12 AM
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This is always my reaction to being responsible.... **stomping feet in tantrum fashion, and whining** But I don't want to!!!!!!

Darn it, being responsible just is hardly ever any fun!! He has a good point, but it doesn't make you feel any better. Also, really, if every body waited till the "time was right" we might never get around to having kids. KWIM? (Insurance is pretty important though )

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June 5th, 2008, 09:15 AM
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Awe!!! i want to see a BFP from you!! sometimes men when they DO think are right. I would just hold tight and go from there. I know you want to be pregnant right now, and you will be soon...

Sometimes theres accidents right

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June 5th, 2008, 09:24 AM
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Awe!!! i want to see a BFP from you!! sometimes men when they DO think are right. I would just hold tight and go from there. I know you want to be pregnant right now, and you will be soon...

Sometimes theres accidents right

LOL[/b]

Is it terrible of me to hope????? lol!
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June 5th, 2008, 09:30 AM
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nope not at all!!!!

My cousin was in the same boat as you, but wanted to start her family. Her husband didnt want kids for like 2 years!! So she was getting fed up with having to wait, and poked holes in the condom wrappers...I know its bad, but what ever. there was her 1% chance of getting pregnant..LOL..

He still doesnt know how he has 2 kids when he used protection...LOL
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June 5th, 2008, 09:37 AM
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LMAO Brandy!

Britt, I'm sorry he is being rational and want to wait. Here's hoping for an oops!!!
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June 5th, 2008, 11:17 AM
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LMAO Brandy! Wow... i can't believe your cousin did that and her DH never found out!

Well there'a something you could try Brittanie

Don't you hate it when men makes sense though! Here's to hoping for an oopsie baby!
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June 5th, 2008, 11:27 AM
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LMAO Brandy! Wow... i can't believe your cousin did that and her DH never found out!

Well there'a something you could try Brittanie

Don't you hate it when men makes sense though! Here's to hoping for an oopsie baby![/b]

You know, I've contemplated it. But...I don't want to "trick" him. I value the trust in my marriage above anything else, so I don't want to basically lie to him.


But I've contemplated it. lol
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June 5th, 2008, 09:19 PM
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aww Brittanie here is a
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June 5th, 2008, 11:38 PM
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ya, my hubby said the same thing (he went back to college recently) but i was like HUH did you just say something?
he finally came around.
HAHA
###### them for being all logical anyway.
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