[madmum_sarah]

well,
sadies appointment went well. there was no blood and protein in her sample this time she is still being reffered but its looking good so they are going to keep her off the long term anti biotics for the time being and see how she goes

now me!
well the waiting was hard enough, everyone there had babies or bumps and partners. i saw every stage from 11 weeks preg to 15 month old twins! needless to say i was ready to break down before i even went in. why on earth did they give me an appointment at the same time all them were there?
the worst is to come....
well, the consultant i saw after m/c and my own doctor said it was very clear from the scans that i had endo and thats what had caused me to lose jamie.
well today i was told by another consultant that i dont have endo as i dont have "ALL THE SYMPTOMS" no i dont but ive had a scan confirm it and i have 90% of them!
she says the cyst they found (the one i was told caused the m/c) was a pregnancy cyst which is normal. i explained this is not possible because i wasnt pregnant then, i was just about due to O! she says i must have been further than i thought and as i have a history of late bfps thats highly likely. if that was the case how come they saw nothing in my uterus when they gave me the scan? i showed my chart which confirms i Od and got pregnant in january!
as for the pain she said "i can see from the examination how sore you get and all i can suggest is different pain killers and no deep penetration during O until af is done. erm... how the hell am i supposed to ttc if i cant even have sex! she says that the pain is.... constipation!!!! excuse bloody me but i think i know what that feels like, ive had problems with it all my bloody life!
she has given me some different meds to help with the pain (which says i cant take it if im ttc, pregnant or have epilepsy erm dumb bi***) i specifically asked her about taking it in the 2ww and she said oh no thats fine even IF you get pregnant. when i asked what she meant by IF she said, well you only have one ovary and tube and history of cysts.
then she goes on to offer me the only real solution if this is a gynalogical problem, a hormone pill that will put me into menopause!
so yeah, a great day all round, shes taken away the thought and memories of my angel and now making me choose between severe pain and ttc (there is no way im risking the new tabs if im ttc so no pain relief) or to totally give up on the idea of having another baby!
sorry this is so long but i dont know what to do now. i feel like she just took my baby away from me all over again
xxxx

[kal30]

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

[HavensMomma]

I'm sorry hun, that DR doesnt seem very sympithetic, and how dare she say IF you get pregnant! DR's are suppose to be suportive. Grr that makes me mad about the pain medicine too... i mean shes a DR she should know its not safe for ttc or pregnanacy. have you decided what yor gona do? If i were you i'd find a different DR, one will support you trying to have another baby.

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I'm so sorry! I would definitely get another opinion, if you can. She sounded horrible! If you need to talk, you know where I am. I love ya girlie!

I'm very glad that Sadie is doing well though.

Aww... I think you definitely need to find somebody to give you a second opinion if possible! I hate it when medical personel are so cold!!

I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all of this!

[Wee3monkeys]

Oh Sarah!! I'm sorry, hun!!! I have no words of wisdom for you, I just wanted to give you !!

[Pitridge]

Oh Sarah, I'm so sorry about how the treated you, can you go somewhere for a second opinion? They did seem to be to sympathetic to people's feelings, she just sounds horrible and all the horrible things that she said to you, the IF...
Tons of going your way. I'm here is you need someone to talk to.

[princesskate]

I already posted on your thread in Uk mummies hun but i will post here too...I am so srry you are having to go through this hun. i am actually crying for you right now, i am so sorry you are having to go through all this, life is so cruel I wish there was something i could do or say to make things better, and I know my words cant change anything but i want you to know i am thinking of you.

[~DaemonMykailasMum~]

Im so sorry Sara that you are going thru all this, I hope you are able to get a second opinion with some one who will be supportive of you wanting to ttc another baby... You're in my thoughts girl!
xoxoxo

[Eleysia]

Sarah im so sorry. there isnt much i can say to make it better but im here if you need me for sure. Id definatly see if you can get a second opinion. she sounds like a B and like she just wants to diagnose something completly different since she wasnt the one there doing the scan and stuff before. id ask someone else, she is stupid.

[jennntj13]

OMG, I am so sorry that she was such a dipstick! (I would use another word, but I can't )

I would go see another doctor... get yourself a 2nd opinion with a doctor that you like. I hope that it brings you better and more hopeful answers!

[lynie07]

Sarah l'm so sorry you are going through this

I'm so sorry hun, I agree with getting a second opinion. Some drs are so insensitive, it makes me mad. And they should be more so with a woman who just mc'd escpecially when scheduling apts.

I'm sorry, lots of hugs to you

[Pound]

i'm sorry, is there any way you can get a 2nd opinion just to make sure before you do anything???