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June 5th, 2008, 06:09 PM
lynie07's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Well l'm feeling so down today as it was our Angel's due date
and at the moment l have to keep it all in which is very hard as l have
the inlaws staying with us and they don't understand the only people that
do are you's ladies,yesturday l was in the supermarket and there was a
lady holding a new born and boy it was very hard as l thouht it should be
us holding ours and driving home l had to hold my tears in l so hate
June as it is also on the 23rd the day we lost our 1st Angel, life is so dam
cruel at times sorry for going on but its the only way to let it out for
me at the moment & you's girls know exactly how l'm feeling and without
you's l would go insane,thanyou for taking the time to read this

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June 5th, 2008, 06:53 PM
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Having to hide it while you are around family is the worst! I'm so sorry! It's terrible that you have all these dates in June just pulling at your heart strings.

Take a little time to yourself! Go hide out somewhere! Take a bath!! You'll get through this! We are all here to listen!

I'll be praying for you!
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June 5th, 2008, 06:59 PM
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I so know how you feel. I found out I was pregnant on May 26.. very unexpected. Then on June 3 I went to the Dr. to find that I was having a miscarriage. I can't help but keep thinking about the baby. I was 5 weeks and 4 days. The worst is not having anyone who really understands what you are feeling. I am so sorry for you.
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June 5th, 2008, 07:02 PM
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Oh girl, I am so sorry!!!! I agree with Kangaroo (Sorry girl, Horrible with names) take some time to yourself... Definitely.. Go have a nice hot bath with candle for light, Cry your little eyes out if need be! I do it when I feel like crying.. I will go have a hot bath and just cry! We are here to listen! xoxoxoxoxox

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June 5th, 2008, 07:09 PM
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I am so sorry!! I can only imagine what will happen when my EDD comes. I know it won't be good. I am praying for tons of strength for you to get through it and I agree with PP's. Take some time for yourself and cry your eyes out if you need to. You deserve to be able to grieve for your baby and your loss. I so wish I could take your pain away. I'm so sorry I can't.
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June 5th, 2008, 08:14 PM
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I'm so sorry hun
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June 5th, 2008, 08:26 PM
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I am so sorry. I wish there was something that I could say to make it all better. Big
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June 5th, 2008, 11:30 PM
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i haven't reached my due date yet (from my m/c) but i can imagine it will be very hard as well. i'm sorry you're going through this.
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June 6th, 2008, 05:40 AM
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I'm so sorry Lynie. My edd was in April and it was super hard. We are here to help you.
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June 6th, 2008, 08:09 AM
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I'm so sorry Lynie, I also haven't reach my EDD yet..I agree you need to take some time just for yourself. I'm sorry that your inlaws are in town and that they don't understand. It's even harder when you have to go through this pain and the people you are around can't understand. It happen to me with SIL two months after the m/c. She brought her 1 year old baby, and I had the hardest time keeping a simle while they were visiting. When she left, she thought that I was being a witch, dh told her that it was because of the m/c. Be strong, we are here for you


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June 6th, 2008, 09:45 AM
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I'm sorry, hun!! You'll be in my thoughts this month!
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