First of all, I am so sorry for your loss

As for the af, Im still waitin for mine

.. Its been 1 month for me, today (lost him on May 8th)... I think I o'd on cd 28.. Which would make AF not due for another 9-10 days.. Thats IF my LP is 14 days.. I dont even know how long my LP is, cuz the first month I started charting I got pregnant.. So I never got to see how long it way... Anywho Yes, Its different for every one.. I started charting tho to give me an idea what was going on with my body.. and it did help, cuz Id be in complete confusion right now if I didnt.. I am on cd 32 since my d&c... I usually have 30 day cycles.. but this ones not a "real" cycle I guess...