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June 10th, 2008, 07:14 PM
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Hey ladies! Well after contemplating TTC for a while, I finally thought I was ready to ttc again. After my two losses it was a really hard decision to try again, but I did. I just got my very very faint (3) BFP's this morning on (3) different tests. Yes I realize I probably went a little overboard.... lol. But as my day went on I found myself reliving some of the worried feelings I had with both of the pregnancies I lost. To make me worry even more I spotted a little bit when I got home today and it really has me worried. I can't go through a third loss in a row. What do you ladies think? I am 4-5 days before my missed period, so perhaps it is implantation spotting??? It was truly only a small spot. I have my beta bloodwork done tomorrow and I probably won't know anything for a day or two on my progesterone either. I feel pregnant, so I guess that is a good thing, but I could use some of everyone's knowledge. I don't want to join another DDC to only have to leave, so I hope you all don't mind me here. TY
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June 10th, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Spotting that early is VERY normal. It just means the baby is getting nice and comfy for a long ride

I had three losses in a row after 6 years of not being able to conceive...but you have to think positive. The way I figure is eventually one of mine HAS to stick

Congrats on the BFP! Can't wait to see you in the Feb DDC when you are ready
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June 10th, 2008, 07:32 PM
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congrats hun. i think youre good to go id agree with Bobbie. We are totally happy to have you here! I was gonna suggest that there is always pregnancy after loss as a stepping stone from here to a DDC if you want to check it out. I love being able to vent over there and get some reassurence, espically since they all have the same fears and experiences as me

Congrats again i hope that this is your healthy and sticky bean!!!
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June 10th, 2008, 07:32 PM
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I agree completely with Bobbie!!! The spotting was from the baby getting nice and comfy!!

Like you mentioned, it IS implantation bleeding! Most women get it around the time their period is due, and it makes them believe that AF is on the way, when she's not!!!

Try and relax girlie!!! You will be pregnant for a good 9 months!!!!!

Sticky dust heading your way!!!
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June 10th, 2008, 07:33 PM
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I can't say that I fully understand, because I have not yet had the pleasure of being pregnant since my m/c. The only thing I can say is that from hanging around here a while, I can assure you that all of the feelings and all of the things going on in your body are perfectly normal, so do your best to try and relax and think positive thoughts. Good luck!
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June 11th, 2008, 01:38 PM
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Thank you all so much. I am really trying not to worry too much about it. It is hard not to do with the losses I have had, but I am going to definitely try to think positive. The spotting stopped and I POAS this morning and it was darker so that made me feel better. I had my Beta blood draw today.....ouch!..... so I will hopefully get those results back before I leave on vacation this weekend. Until those results come back I will probably be a POAS a holic. lol!
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June 11th, 2008, 01:41 PM
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I guess I missed your post. Sorry! Congratulations! That is awesome. Of course you can join us here. We'd love to have you. Please let us know your beta results when you get them.
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June 11th, 2008, 01:47 PM
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I will definitely let you all know when they come in. Hopefully they will be a really nice number for where I am at.

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