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June 11th, 2008, 09:12 AM
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I dont know what is going on with my brain right now. I am soooo scared that this ultra sound coming up isnt going to be a good one. I try to stay as positive as possible but I cant help but worry that this is all going to come to an end. God I have a week of these feeling still before we go to the doctors. I guess I just worry that this is all to real to be true and that its going to be over in a blink of an eye. I feel so bad being so scared when I know what you all are going through with each cycle. I never thought it would be this hard once I got pg again. I just wish I could look into the future and see that this baby stayed the whole 9 months and that we had him/her with no problems. KWIM?
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June 11th, 2008, 09:19 AM
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Its natural to feel worried after a loss. But when i was pregnant with tom, id never loss before and i was still scared! Basically what im trying to say is that those feelings are 100% the norm!
I think your U/S will be fantastic!! your little bean will be wrigglin about in their and you will totally fall in love!! Just relax sweetie, in a wekk youl feel so much better!!
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June 11th, 2008, 09:26 AM
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I agree...Try to relax and think positive; I'm sending you positive vibes.


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June 11th, 2008, 10:36 AM
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Oh Angie, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I completely understand though. I hope the week flies by for you. If you need to talk, I'm here. This baby is gonna be fine!!!
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June 11th, 2008, 10:37 AM
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Angieee!!!!!!

Try and keep yourself relaxed hunny!!! I know it's hard!!!! Maybe go get a pedicure or something? I know that always relaxes me! Maybe that's why I've gotten 2 in the last month!

Your ultrasound next week is going to go beautifully, and you'll walk out knowing what you'll be naming your little one come November!!!!!

Sending tonssssss of positive vibes your way!!!!!!
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June 11th, 2008, 11:04 AM
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Oh Angela i'm sorry your feeling this way, but it's completely normal! I remember when i was pregnant with Haven I had an early m/c a few months before- I was terrified until i hit 20 or so weeks! Try and concentrate on good things, and even though it's hard try to enjoy your pregnancy! I can't wait to see your u/s pictures i'm sure everything will be perfect! I'm sending you bunches of positive vibes
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June 11th, 2008, 02:15 PM
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Oh, Angie! I wish I could make all those fears go away for you. I'm sure your little girl (yep, I'm predicting girl) is going to be just fine! Hang in there... Just remember, it's shorter than the 2ww you went through before you got your BFP, and you made it through that!!

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June 11th, 2008, 04:31 PM
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The weird thing is the 2ww for me was a breeze compaired to all the worrying I've been dealing with this whole pg. I guess I just want to see my baby and make sure they are ok because its been 10 weeks already since I last saw them. I hope tomorrow is better then today. I think I worryed so much that I made myself sick today. Even DH asked me why I am so nervous about it. Its so hard to explain to him what I'm going through because I know he will never truely understand. Thats the part thats the hardest for me is having no one in real life that knows what I'm going through.
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June 11th, 2008, 04:33 PM
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I know what you mean about not having anyone IRL that truly understands. That makes it harder, but at least you have great people just living in your pc waiting to help you in any way
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June 11th, 2008, 04:36 PM
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I'm sorry you are so anxious Ang...my first appt is still 2 weeks away and I'm already worrying myself sick so I could only imagine what you must be feeling...just try your hardest to stay optimistic...and think about all the wonderful things you are going to get to buy once you know what he or she is...
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June 11th, 2008, 04:36 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could just reach into the computer and be right there with you girls. It would be the best girls day ever
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