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June 11th, 2008, 05:49 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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I dont want anyone to be sad about this, but i do want to let everyone know what ended up happening. I have a blighted ovum, and for whatever reason my body wont abort it, so im going to have to go in for a D&C.
Like i said, dont be sad, im genuinly ok with this. It just wasnt meant to be and i know that now. Id still like to hang out since i feel like ive made alot of friends here, and cheer all of the TTCAL girls on. You all know i wont be trying again for a long time but i cant bring myself to say goodbye just yet 
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June 11th, 2008, 05:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
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I'm sorry Eleysia. I really am. I'm glad at how well you are handling it though, but if you want to cry, be sad, mad etc... do. There isn't anything wrong with that.
Good luck, with everything!
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June 11th, 2008, 05:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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Okay hon.... I will do what you ask.
But I do have to say one thing.... and this isn't meant about babies, but about life.
Life has a funny way of working out better than you expect. You may find a new man and be TTC before you ever expected to Happiness  to you...cause girl you soooo deserve to be happy  I love ya girl!
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 11th, 2008, 05:52 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Indpls
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I know you said to not be sad but I am, I am so sorry Eleysia.
I would be very upset if you just left. Please stay as you are a very important part of our group.
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June 11th, 2008, 05:57 PM
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
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I'd be sad if you left too. The ladies were nice enough (and ARE nice enough) to let me hand out when not TTC, so you don't have to be actively TTC either!!
I'm very sorry, though, about this and about all the other crap. ((you still haven't filled me in about the fate thing!))
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June 11th, 2008, 06:04 PM
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CopperBoom!
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: MI
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Eleysia...I've been lurking around here (per your recommendation!), but I haven't had the nerve to post. However, I saw your post and had to reply. I am glad that you are doing okay with everything, that takes a very strong person. Still, I am sorry you had to be put in that position. Your kind words helped me so much when I was dealing with my loss last week, so really, if there is anything you need, even if it's just someone to chat with about something completely unrelated, I'm always around!
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June 11th, 2008, 06:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Well I hope you never leave
I'm glad that you are doing fine, but I'm still sad about, I can't help it. I'm here for you if you need a shoulder to cry/not cry on. You are one of the strongest woman I have ever meet, I just wanted to tell you that, don't ever lose that. We love you
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June 11th, 2008, 06:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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ok now im crying  Newmomma, im so happy you came this way. I really hope you find the same help and strength that i found here. These women are a huge part of my life these days. Thank you all i will be staying and rooting for you all, and i definatly appreciate all the hugs, well wishes, and friendships
Bobbie thank you for the advice, i sure hope so hun 
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June 11th, 2008, 06:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
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Won't say good-bye yet? What gave you the impression we would let you leave?
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June 11th, 2008, 06:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
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Eleysia, you should know by now that you are NEVER allowed to say goodbye. No one is allowed to leave this group. It wouldn't be the same without you!
loads of hugs to you!
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June 11th, 2008, 07:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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I hope that you stay with us. You give strength to so many of us. I will try not to be sad for you. But can I at least keep you in my T&P's?
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June 11th, 2008, 07:10 PM
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Mommy to Bailey & Camryn
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Kansas City Metro
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I'm glad that you are handling things so well.
You must not have noticed that there is an entrance here...but no exit!!! You're stuck with us, like it or not!! 
((((hugs))))))
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June 11th, 2008, 07:14 PM
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1 of Each is such a Treat
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: ~*West Coast of BC Canada*~
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Hi Eleysia... I am sorry that you have to go thru this.. I really am .. But I am glad you are doing okay.. You are a very strong woman... I am growing to LOVE all you ladies, and I would deifnitely be sad if you left..
xoxoxox
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June 11th, 2008, 07:28 PM
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Super Mommy
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Location: Long Beach, CA
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I really wish you weren't going through so much all at once, and I really am sorry you have to be going through this. Since you promised to stay around, and I don't know what I'd do in here if you didn't, I will respect your wishes and not be sad.
I wish I had more real life hugs to give you.
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June 11th, 2008, 07:37 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry, hun.
I never know what to say. It's nice to see you sticking around though.
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June 11th, 2008, 08:28 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
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You better not leave me hun! It just wouldn't be the same w/o you! We LOVE you!!!!! Big 
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June 11th, 2008, 08:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Florida
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Eleysia,
You are such a STRONG, INDEPENDANT woman and I admire you for that. Please be sure and stick around.
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June 11th, 2008, 09:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Washington
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June 11th, 2008, 09:14 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Um, who said you were allowed to leave anyway?? 
girl!!!!! You know we're here 100% for you!
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June 11th, 2008, 10:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 3,071
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although i am truly sad about all this, i'm glad that you have made your peace with it to some extent. i'm glad you aren't leaving, it wouldn't be as great a place w/o you. <3
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