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June 13th, 2008, 11:56 AM
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ok, this is going to sound very rude and personal to some but....

i was having a convo with a girl friend earlier and we got onto the subject of "how we cope when our partners are away"
well, needless to say this led to a convo about "toys" and it got us thinking, do you think using toys could affect the eggs before O or cause complications with the egg being fertilised.
yes i know, sometimes i can go too far!
the reason we started wondering is we have both had losses and both times we have had to "please ourselves" because our men have been away.
do you think it could cause problems cos of the batteries and stuff?
thanks in advance from a VERY niave sarah and friend (who says if i use her name she will kill me)
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June 13th, 2008, 11:58 AM
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You are too funny... Ummm To answer your question.. I really dont think it would do anything... if you can have sex then I dont think a toy would do anything... Not sure about the batteries.. But I really highly doubt it.. Hopefully some one will have a better answer lol

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June 13th, 2008, 12:00 PM
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I seriously don't think it would hurt anything, even the batteries. That was a good question though.
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June 13th, 2008, 12:01 PM
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thank you. she has a mains powered one which is what started the questions in our mind. ive made her post it on her forum too, there is no way in hell im going to be the only one sitting on the other side of screen with a VERY red face
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June 13th, 2008, 12:02 PM
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I don't think it would hurt anything either...

Good question though, I wonder if there have been any studies done...
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June 13th, 2008, 12:04 PM
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i dont think so brittanie and if they have then not published. i have searched and so have a couple of others and google comes up with nothing i tried every option before asking this!
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June 13th, 2008, 12:11 PM
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lol.. I think your fine then...
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June 13th, 2008, 12:16 PM
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well ive googled and cant find anything
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June 13th, 2008, 12:18 PM
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Sarah you make me chuckle.
But that is a very interesting questions and truthfully I would love to know the answer as well.
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June 13th, 2008, 12:45 PM
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Sarah, I absolutely ADORE you!!!
And to be completely honest, I'm glad you asked this question! I'd wondered about it too!
But I'm kind of along the same lines as the other girls, I'm thinking if sex can't hurt the baby, then I don't think a toy would hurt either.
Good for you to suck it up and ask!! You're fearless!!
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June 13th, 2008, 12:46 PM
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i highly doubt it would hurt anything at all!!!! Sarah dont be embarrassed!!! I love the fact that im a sexual being

I will say that i had ALOT of Alone time when i had just gotten pg with Gavin and im not kidding, i went to town about every night, and he is fine. I dont think thats what caused it.. i promise you, my B.O.B. (battery opperated boyfriend) got tons of use!!!

Speaking of which................ I know exactly where i stashed him when i told chad i had "gotten rid" of him......
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June 13th, 2008, 01:02 PM
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There you have it Eleysia. Now you don't have to play warcraft tonight. You can play with something else.
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June 13th, 2008, 01:13 PM
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ok now im blushing
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June 13th, 2008, 02:07 PM
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I've actually wondered about this too, so this is a good question! I googled a couple things on this, and can't find anything.
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June 13th, 2008, 08:17 PM
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OMG!!! I am laughing so hard right now!!!

Eleysia, just one more reason why you're my FAVORITE person on earth!!
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ive had the same ? on this im a big toy freak lol hubby works nights so gotta do something but maybe what i was thanking is the viberation to the toys. what about that?
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June 14th, 2008, 12:56 AM
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well im still blushing but laughing so hard right now it hurts!!
im so glad im not the only person who has wondered about it and eleysia.... i bloody love you girl
well my mates forum has come up with the same, "surely if there is no studies then it should be ok"
i do however think im going to be making the most of the toys this cycle cos we not trying and just use mark or non battery operated one next month just for my own sanity and peace of mind.
thanks girls, i knew i could rely on you!
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June 14th, 2008, 09:50 AM
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I think that the only danger would be if you inserted it and it had bacteria on it. Keep it clean and loaded with fresh batteries and have fun!
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