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June 14th, 2008, 07:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Well tomorrow marks the date that I had my last m/c 6w4d. Of course I am spotting tonight. Can I just 
I think this is it for me.... if this one doesn't stick, I am done. I cannot take this emotional roller coaster any more. I just want to be PG and happy. Why is that too much to ask for? 
Thanks for letting me get that off my chest 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 14th, 2008, 07:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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June 14th, 2008, 07:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks for the prayers.... it means a lot.
I don't know. Last time I went to the ER for the dizziness, I left after 3 hours of waiting. I just gave up. Now I am wishing I had stayed. The not knowing bites...big time.
I will probably just go to bed.....and pray things are okay
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 14th, 2008, 07:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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I know what you mean i hate the wait in the ER, but if it will put your mind at ease i say the waiting is worth it. Otherwise just take it easy and call your OB on monday. 
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June 14th, 2008, 08:03 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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HUGE and prayers going out to you. Crossing my fingers for you, too.
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BFP Sept. '07
M/C October '07
BFP December '07
M/C January '08
Jan-Apr '08: Testing w/RE; unexplained inf.
May '08: IUI cycle #1-BFN
June '08: No TTC
July '08: No medical assistance; BFN
~readyat39~
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June 14th, 2008, 08:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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You're in my thoughts, Bobbie. I'm hoping that this baby sticks.
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June 14th, 2008, 08:15 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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(((((HUGE HUGS)))))) I am sending lots of prayers and sticky vibes for you!! You deserve this baby(ies) to stick!
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June 14th, 2008, 09:13 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbie... I will keep you in my t & p! I hope that this is just a big scare! I want to for you!! Please go to the doctors/er and get checked out... pm me if i can help in ANY way. Big
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June 14th, 2008, 10:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbie, Im so sorry hunny. Ill be praying hard for you and you bean. Take it easy hun, and i hope you get answers soon.
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June 14th, 2008, 10:47 PM
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Super Mommy
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Huge Bobbie! I'll keep you in my t&p for sure. I hope you wake up tomorrow and everything is A-OK...
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June 15th, 2008, 01:58 AM
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June 15th, 2008, 02:00 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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no no no!!!!
bobbies baby listen up, your mummy has waited a long time for this so just hang on in there!
thinking of you sweetheart
xxx
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June 15th, 2008, 04:56 AM
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I am sending lots of prayers your way bobbie. Maybe its just the babies snuggling in real good for the long haul ahead. Just try to take it easy and I hope you get great news at your ultra sound wednesday.
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June 15th, 2008, 06:06 AM
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Oh no!!!!
Is there any kind of Urgent Care facility that you could go to that would have less of a wait?
Please take it easy - you know the drill - lay down, drink lots of water etc.
I'll send up an extra prayer for you and your baby(ies)
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June 15th, 2008, 06:20 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You are in my T&Ps Bobbie. I know you already know this, but some spotting during pregnancy can be normal, no matter how hard it is to see it there (sometimes it just helps to hear it again)!
Please relax as much as possible and KUP!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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June 15th, 2008, 06:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks girls...you all mean so much to me 
The spotting seems to have pretty much gone away... just a tiny bit left over. I would love to go in to the ER again, but I am scared to. I just don't want to hear that I am m/c again.
Time will tell right? I just wish I could speed up time to like week 20. I have always LOVED being PG and didn't want to not be able to enjoy even one day of pregnancy. This time a lot of the joy seems to be gone. I am just too scared to have the joy part. I feel like a failure. I pray this baby sticks.... I don't know if I could do this again.
Thanks for all the prayers.... I love you all!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 15th, 2008, 06:24 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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June 15th, 2008, 06:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Bobbie, I've been busy this weekend and just found this. I'm praying for you and that little bean(s). Hang in there, girl! We love you.
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June 15th, 2008, 06:26 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Well, I'm glad to hear the spotting as subsided, and I hope that's the way it stays. I'm praying hard that it doesn't start again, and I can't wait till Wednesday when you get your u/s.
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June 15th, 2008, 07:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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bobbie i will keep u and bean/s in my T&P as allways.
and now bean/s u need to stay in there and let momma meat ya in a 8 mos...... so STICK bean/s stick
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