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June 19th, 2008, 10:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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It reads:
There's hope! There's hope!
Thanks for listening to me whine! Now, let's get out there, catch those eggies and MAKE 'EM STICK!!
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June 19th, 2008, 10:11 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Sacha, I'm sorry you have to see that everyday. I hope you catch that eggie soon and it's a very sticky bean. I'm praying for you!
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June 19th, 2008, 10:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 Sacha I couldnt have said it beter myself hun. I hope that fate has a way of working itself out for you sooner than you think, and that youll be well taken care of hunny.
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June 19th, 2008, 11:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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((HUGS)) Your post reminded me of this story that I love...it's popular in the adoption community but I think it applies to anyone who has had to struggle to become a parent:
Deciding to have a baby is like planning a trip to Australia. You've heard it's a wonderful place; you've read many guide-books and feel certain you're ready to go. Everyone you know has traveled there by plane. They say it can be a turbulent flight with occasional rough landings, but you can look forward to being pampered on the trip.
So you go to the airport and ask the ticket agent for a ticket to Australia. All around you, excited people are boarding planes for Australia. It seems there is no seat for you; you'll have to wait for the next flight. Impatient, but anticipating a wonderful trip, you wait --- and wait --- and wait.
Flights to Australia continue to come and go. People say silly things like, "Relax. You'll get on a flight soon." Other people actually get on a plane and then cancel their trip, to which you cry, "It's no fair!" After a long time the ticket agent tells you, "I'm sorry, we're not going to be able to get you on a plane to Australia. Perhaps you should think about going by boat." "By BOAT!" you say. "Going by boat will take a very long time and it costs a great deal of money. I really had my heart set on going by plane."
So you go home and think about not going to Australia at all. You wonder if Australia will be as beautiful if you approach it by sea rather than air. But you have long dreamed of this wonderful place, and finally you decide to travel by boat. It is a long trip, many months over many rough seas. No one pampers you.
You wonder if you will ever see Australia. Meanwhile, your friends and family have flown back and forth to Australia two or three more times, marveling about each trip.
Then one glorious day, the boat docks in Australia. It is more exquisite than you ever imagined, and the beauty is magnified by your long days at sea.
People continue to fly to Australia as often as they like, but you are able to travel only once, perhaps twice.
Some say things like, "Oh, be glad you didn't fly. My flight was horrible; traveling by sea is so easy."
You will always wonder what it would have been like to fly to Australia. Still, you know God blessed you with a special appreciation of Australia, and the beauty of Australia is not in the way you get there, but in the place itself.
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June 19th, 2008, 11:37 AM
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just me
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Morena, that was such a beautiful story, what a great way of looking at it.
I got on the plane, and was circling the Sydney airport, when they told me I couldn't land and I had to go back and come back later.
What a beautiful way of thinking of it.
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June 19th, 2008, 11:59 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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That is a truly beautiful story. Thanks for sharing!
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June 19th, 2008, 12:49 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Morena,
Your story made me cry.  It was good tears though. It was a beautiful story. I know, whether by plane or by boat, I WILL GET TO AUSTRALIA SOMEDAY. In the meantime, I pray that those who have already visited and those who will visit in the future (including me) will not take it's beauty for granted.
Thanks again!
 to everyone!
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I got on the plane, and was circling the Sydney airport, when they told me I couldn't land and I had to go back and come back later. [/b]
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I'm so sorry Brit! I cannot even imagine. Life STINKS sometime!
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June 19th, 2008, 03:04 PM
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1 of Each is such a Treat
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That is a BEATUIFUL! Story! Beatuiful way to look at it! Im sorry you have to see that every day Sacha! That sucks!
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June 19th, 2008, 05:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm glad you all liked it.
((HUGS)) Sacha...I'm sorry I made you cry. But you will get to Australia!! ((HUGS))
Brittanie, what a great analogy. ((HUGS)) to you, too.
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June 19th, 2008, 07:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I completely understand! I was an angry person watching cute little mamas waddling around.
Morena, I loved that story too! Had me in tears!!
Aww, Brittanie, life's so.... not nice sometimes!!
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June 19th, 2008, 07:46 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 That sign would drive me nuts! I hope you see your BFP soon!
That story was amazing!! TY!
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