I feel all alone

Mommy2Makenna · #1 June 26th, 2008, 09:48 AM

* You have been active on this board since November or before
AND
* You aren't pregnant
AND
* You are actively TTC

I'm sure there are more of you out there, but I just feel all alone right now. Can you come out of hiding and let me know I'm not alone.

madmum_sarah · #2 June 26th, 2008, 10:08 AM

aww im sorry you feel alone hun.
ive only really been active here since march but been ttc since november

xx

MountainMomma · #3 June 26th, 2008, 10:13 AM

I haven't always been active on this board, but I have had four miscarriages since October 2006. I've been actively TTC since March of 2006. And yes, I feel all alone a lot of times too. One day it will be our turn. I just wish that day was today.

Mom 2 Avery · #4 June 26th, 2008, 10:14 AM

I have NO idea when I started on this board...been close to three years now, I'm sure!
And I'm STILL here...

I'm sorry you're feeling alone in all this....But that's the advantage of our little group!!!

I'm here if you need to talk!

Hugs from Houston!
Dawna

katiegirl · #5 June 26th, 2008, 10:36 AM

I'm only one month off from you.

I have been active and TTC on this board since December.

It just feels at times as if some of us are just left behind. Especially with recent explosion of BFPs

HavensMomma · #6 June 26th, 2008, 10:53 AM

I've been TTC since march 07 and I got pregnant in september07 and m/c in november. I haven't been active on this board the whole time though.

It feels like we've been TTC forever, especially with all the BFPs recently. I'm praying you get yours this month!

..Jessica.. · #7 June 26th, 2008, 11:17 AM

I'm two out of the three.....

I feel like I've been waiting forever....

Melanie0507 · #8 June 26th, 2008, 02:46 PM

I am right there with you Sacha---
Here since November/early Dec
Actively TTC
STILL Not Pregnant

I hope our time is coming soon. I understand your loneliness, but you aren't alone!

readyat39 · #9 June 26th, 2008, 04:09 PM

*raises hand*
I thought about posting a "Who's NOT pregnant?" thread a few days ago...I thought maybe there were 3 or 4 of us left. Started TTC August 07, m/c in October, joined here, pg in December, m/c in January

I'm not very active though-I think once it started getting close to my first due date, the BFP's started getting to me.

Several women that I started with have ttc'ed, got their bfp, and have DELIVERED. While I'm ecstatic for them, I'm in disbelief that I'm where I am....so many months and not pregnant.

Brittanie · #10 June 26th, 2008, 04:15 PM

Okay, this post totally is putting me in tears. So I'm responding the only way I know how

readyat39 · #11 June 26th, 2008, 04:33 PM

Ack! Yours made me cry!

I hate crying at the computer!

I don't begrudge anyone their bfp...it truly is great for them!

Getting left behind month after month....that is the part that is getting harder and harder to handle.

Thanks for all the dust!!!!!!!

Mommy2Makenna · #12 June 26th, 2008, 06:45 PM

I didn't mean to make everyone so sad. I know there are several of us left -- I just needed a reminder that I'm not in this alone.

and

to everyone!!

Alison81 · #13 June 26th, 2008, 06:54 PM

Technically we've been TTC since december, but I went on BCP's for one month in march, so I am now counting our first month as April, so this is our 4th cycle TTC. Starting to feel like I will be here forever! You're definitely not alone, it's almost been a year since my angel was conceived.

jennntj13 · #14 June 26th, 2008, 10:17 PM

I have been here since the beginning of February... I'm not too far behind you.

MountainMomma · #15 June 26th, 2008, 10:33 PM

I don't begrudge anyone who has gotten their BFP's either. In fact....I've cried tears of happiness for each and every BFP I've seen on this board. I'm just really jealous! lol I'm coming up on the 2 year anniversary of my first loss in the not so distant future, and to be honest when I lost that one, I really thought I would have a baby by now and probably be pregnant with another. And here I sit...still waiting. In that two years I have watchedmy sister and DH's brother get pregnant and have babies. (Both due right around the same time one of my angels was) and now my brother's GF is pregnant and due in no time. I've had countless cousins having babies, and I can't even begin to think about how many cycle buddies I've had on here who have moved on to DDC. In fact, I can think of at least three people (here and IRL) who are pregnant with their SECOND since I started. Some days we can't help but feel down about it. We just have to remember that eventually we will get our turn!