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Madison.N.Hailey'sMom · #1 June 27th, 2008, 06:53 AM

What is the hardest part of TTC besides the BFN's?

For me it was having to go through trying all the different things. The charting, temping, Checking CM, CP ect.

princesskate · #2 June 27th, 2008, 06:56 AM

Well i havnt actually tried starting ttc yet, my other pregnanciew were unplanned. The hardest part for me is the 'not knowing' what to expect when ttc. Like how long it will take, whether i will ever get a sticky bean ect.....i hope i make sense

.x~KAT~x. · #3 June 27th, 2008, 07:31 AM

The hardest part is my fear of yet anouther ectopic

madmum_sarah · #4 June 27th, 2008, 08:01 AM

my fear of getting a bfp.
i knew i was scared but after the chemical again last month im even more so. seems i cant get past 2 days with a bfp before bleeding starts again.
im due af the day after i go on holiday so i was going to test the day i leave but im too scared. part of me would love to know af wasnt going to show but then what will my hol be like for the kids if i start bleeding again.
sometimes i think im better off not knowing straight away but then again if i dont test will i just be as worried because i wont knoiw?
ttc is hard but its defo harder after loss

Mom 2 Avery · #5 June 27th, 2008, 08:05 AM

People ask me if I've lost my mind.
I guess since I'm past 40 I'm supposed to give up...

I wish you all the bestest of luck!!!!
Hugs!
Dawna

katiegirl · #6 June 27th, 2008, 08:41 AM

I think the hardest part is all the waiting..

Waiting for AF
Waiting to O
Waiting through the 2WW
repeat

tparum · #7 June 27th, 2008, 08:51 AM

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I think the hardest part is all the waiting..

Waiting for AF
Waiting to O
Waiting through the 2WW
repeat[/b]

and if i do get another bfp if its a ectopic again

Pitridge · #8 June 27th, 2008, 09:09 AM

I think that after the m/c was waiting to O, I did not O for a couple of months. Other than that was waiting for af to come or not to come and the huge dissapoinment when it did show.

Proudmommyof3 · #9 June 27th, 2008, 09:56 AM

What is the hardest part of TTC besides the BFN's?

The 2ww most definitely!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #10 June 27th, 2008, 10:12 AM

I would say the 2ww and all the things leading up to it. TTC after loss is extremely time consuming! It was for me anyway, I was obsessed.

Brittanie · #11 June 27th, 2008, 10:18 AM

For me it was the (obviously completely unfounded) fear that I wasn't ever going to get pregnant again. I was so scared that Cora was my one chance and I failed.

Mommy2Makenna · #12 June 27th, 2008, 10:20 AM

The hardest part for me is the fear that it will not happen again -- and the knowledge that I will STILL be afraid if/when it does happen again.

kellyanne · #13 June 27th, 2008, 11:30 AM

Fear and worry....like many of you have said. Also, the feeling of isolation....like everyone else can keep a baby, no one understands, etc. Thank goodness for TTCAL!

Melanie0507 · #14 June 27th, 2008, 11:34 AM

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The hardest part for me is the fear that it will not happen again -- and the knowledge that I will STILL be afraid if/when it does happen again.[/b]

LifeToTheMax · #15 June 27th, 2008, 12:05 PM

Well, I haven't officially started TTC yet (even if DF was ready, I have to wait at least a month or two), but I already know that I'm going to be worried I'll never get to see those two pink lines again, and if I ever do, I'll worry every day until the baby is born that I will start bleeding again.

jennntj13 · #16 June 27th, 2008, 03:15 PM

I would agree with the 2WW... and convincing dh that I'm not crazy when I wanna dtd the week of O every night

KDD · #17 June 27th, 2008, 04:39 PM

- The 2WW
- being worried that I won't get pregnant again
- being scared that if I do, that I'll lose that one too

Minor irritations include: changing my eating habits (no caffeine) - calculating where I am in my cycle to see if I can have 1 glass of wine - as examples.