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June 30th, 2008, 05:28 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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This sucks. 
I hope the rest of you in the 2WW have better luck.
If it doesn't happen this cycle I'm taking the next two off. My sister is getting married next May and I'm in the wedding party. I don't want to miss her big day.
I'm still feeling a lot of anger about my m/c, too, and thinking how unfair this is, to finally get pg after 2 years, to go till 10 weeks thinking everything's perfect, and then have the rug pulled out from under my feet. I should be getting ready for a baby now, starting my third trimester, waddling around, not popping pills to help fend off these freaking AF cramps. Life just isn't fair sometimes.
That concludes my pity party. Thanks for letting me vent. Best of luck to the rest of you.
Morena
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June 30th, 2008, 05:57 PM
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I am sorry the  showed! I actually am hoping she shows her ugly face here. This will be first since my miscarriage.
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June 30th, 2008, 09:17 PM
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I am so sorry she showed... the anger is totally normal... I definitely go through period where I am mad that I am not pg... you'll have to take lots of pics of the wedding.
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June 30th, 2008, 09:34 PM
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 Im so sorry she showed. i hope you get your BFP next cycle. know what you mean being mad your not prego, big hugs.
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June 30th, 2008, 09:58 PM
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I'm sorry she showed. I got mine on Saturday.
I'm always the worst the day before she shows. Hormones are out of control, I'm staring at a BFN, trying to hold just a little hope, but I know it's over for that month, and I feel like I can't do this another month, just wanting to give up, but so far by the time I've O'ed, I'm ready to hope again.
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June 30th, 2008, 10:15 PM
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=( sorry about af. i know how you feel. i still feel frustrated about my mc, i'd be about 5 months right now. maybe you'll get an oops in the next 2 cycles, if not good luck when you ttc again!
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June 30th, 2008, 10:21 PM
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((hugs)) I'm sorry that AF showed.
It is completely unfair for you to try that long, get pg and lose your babies. It really pisses me off sometimes that things like this happen to the sweetest people.
I hope you get a little sticky babe soon. My little brother is getting married next June but I'm not in the wedding party so I'm taking my chances. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thank you all for "getting it". Other people just don't understand how hard this can be.
Each month when I stare at those BFNs I remember the definition of crazy: to continue to do the same thing expecting different results...and I think "I must be nuts to keep putting myself through this!" LOL!
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I am sorry AF showed
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Morena im so sorry hun I hope that this is the last af youll see for at least a year. I agree that the anger is completly normal, so is sadness and every other emotion that comes with a loss. You have every right to be angry. I cant say im angry anymore, but my situation was different, and i believe that for me (not necessiarly for you) that i was absolutly not meant to have either of those babies with Chad. I know things happen for a reason, and i hope yours will show itself soon, and it will bring great resutls
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I'm sorry she showed.
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I'm sorry Morena. I feel the same way. This morning I was calling Mother Nature a cruel B*#ch! First we get pg when NTNP, then she takes that away, and now she's making us jump through hoops to get back what we already had! It's not fair. Vent away! That's why we're here.
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I hope this is the last you see of her for a long while.
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I'm sorry she showed up. I too get angry about not being pregnant anymore, I could have written your post myself.
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