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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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i gave an update in my last post but now im bleeding 
bfp yesterday, bfn today and now bleeding! its only light just now but its there!
im never going to be a mum again!
im only 10dpo today and really thought this one may at least have a chance to implant better befpre af due as im not even due until next tuesday/wednesday but its over already  the only way i could be due af now is if i Od on cd 6 which didnt happen!! 22 day cycle, i dont think so!
sorry girls.
xx
on the plus side, hopefully the bleeding will have stopped before i go away on monday which will be better for camping. (i HAVE to try and think of something positive!)
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Texas
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Sorry. Hope you get your BFP very soon.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Virginia
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I'm so sorry 
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I'm so sorry hun, I know this isn't easy for you. The most important thing right now is.....you are an awesome mom and one day real soon, your dreams will come true.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
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I'm sorry Sarah! I hope that your trip is wonderful though, I think you deserve to have some fun after all you've been through lately.
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
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I really have nothing more to add than I'm so sorry honey.
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CopperBoom!
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Join Date: May 2008
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I'm so sorry!
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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I am so sorry.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
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Oh, Hun!! !!!!! I'm so sorry!!!!!
Is your LP usually this short? Is it heavy/bright red? Don't they say that implantation bleeding can happen any where from 7dpo and on? I'm no expert, but could it be that? Or on the other hand, if you can look at it this way, lots of women spot early on, is it spotting or actual bleading? I still want to be positive for you, I was soooo happy for you!!!
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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thanks hun
i was hoping that it was implantation as its light flow and bright red but the test at docs was faint pos so implantation has to have happened already
i did bleed with most of my pregnancies but after the 2 losses and talking to the doc this morning my hopes of that have gone
my usual lp is 16-18 days so this is totally not normal for me
i dont understand why i can get the bfps but within 2 days im bleeding again.
thanks for thinking positive for me hun.
xx
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh, Hun!! !!!!! I'm so sorry!!!!!
Is your LP usually this short? Is it heavy/bright red? Don't they say that implantation bleeding can happen any where from 7dpo and on? I'm no expert, but could it be that? Or on the other hand, if you can look at it this way, lots of women spot early on, is it spotting or actual bleading? I still want to be positive for you, I was soooo happy for you!!! [/b]
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I have to agree, if it's spotting it could be implatation bleeding.
I'm sorry hun, I'm just not giving up on you just yet, you been through so much that you deserve this bfp.
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Mega Super Mommy
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this is so not fair. im so sorry Sarah let me know if you need anything girl. im so sorry.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im so sorry hun
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Sweetie, I posted over in GS but I wanted to say I'm not giving up on you yet either!!! With the last pg, I had IB 2 days after I got my first positive. And they were FAINT positives. Stayed really faint a few days. Even the first test I took this morning was a BFN.
Just wish I could be there IRL to give you tons of
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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thank you girls. 
i told mark im bleeding again and he just said "your period isnt due for ages yet". i just said i know, something isnt right and left it at that. i dont see the point in telling him when he wont talk about it anyway and there is nothng he can do to help.
im fighting the urge to cry just now because the kids are still up but i will give in soon and let it all out.
thankfully i have to start my sleepin meds tonight which i think will be a big help!
thank you all so much for all your love and support. i wish i was joining that ddc with some of you but looks like il be changing my "norm" and having a end of year baby instead of a start of year (jan, feb, march and april babies here) lol
i love you girls and i dont know where i would be without you.
xxx
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I just wanted to say that I love you girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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more hugs coming your way hun
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