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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Posts: 618
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I m/c'd on the 20th and passed the placenta naturally one the 26th of June. I just quit bleeding yesterday. The only question I didn't ask the Dr. was when can I DTD again?? How long are you supposed to wait? He told me to wait 3 cycles before trying again, but it's been awhile..... 
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DD#1 7
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Cody Joseph, born still at 20 weeks, December 11, 2009.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Virginia
Posts: 2,007
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First of all, I am sorry for your loss 
How far along were you when you m/c?
I would think you could DTD now but just don't really TTC until after your first cycle... but then again I'm not sure. Sorry I am of no big help. I had to wait 4 weeks, but I'm pretty sure that's because I had to have surgery
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
Posts: 3,734
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I am sorry for your loss
I was induced at 17w pg and had a d&c after for hemeraging due to retained placenta.
I have always waited till the bleeding stops and never out 5 m/c and 3 d&c 2 after 17w babies have had a prob with infection or anything.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 834
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I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm pretty sure the doctor said we had to wait 2 weeks before DTD. I would call your doctor just to be sure. Hope you are doing ok.
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Me: 33
DH: 32
TTC 3/07
m/c - 7/29/07 (5w4d)
m/c - 10/8/07 (6w4d)
m/c - 2/27/08 (11w5d)
m/c - 6/20/08 (7w2d)
9/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, not enough mature follies
10/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, ovulated on my own
12/08 - IVF w/ PGD: BFP!
Owen Royce...born August 28, 2009
1/10 IVF w/ PGD: 1 egg fertilized, so no PGD
1/30/10 Transferred in one embryo
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Georgia Elle...born October 15, 2010
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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I'm sorry for your lost
I had to wait 2 cycles after a d&c at 8w5d. I would call the doctor and find out for sure
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,197
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I thinking waiting until the bleeding has stopped is good enough, but don't be afraid to give your doctor a call and see what they say
Sorry to hear about your loss
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Posts: 618
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I was about 7 weeks when I m/c'd. (we were never quite sure about the dates).
Thanks for the info. ladies and thanks for the I really appreciate it.
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DD#2 4.5
Cody Joseph, born still at 20 weeks, December 11, 2009.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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I just wanted to say that you have a cute puppy
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,519
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Sorry I didn't see this post before.
I was told to wait two weeks.
I waited two days  I didn't care about infection... I just wanted to feel normal. I didn't get an infection thank goodness. It was pretty dumb on my part...but oh well.
I was told to wait till after the first AF to TTC again.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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I'm sorry for your loss hun!!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I'm also sorry for your loss. I was also told after my m/c to wait 2 weeks (Which was only a couple days after the bleeding stopped... I bled for like 11 days, i think) and we had to wait for 1st AF after m/c to ttc. Good luck and look forward to getting to know you!
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