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Veteran
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Join Date: Nov 2007
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Tomorrow, July 3, 2008, was my EDD. I really, REALLY thought I would be pregnant again by now. Instead, I'm waiting for AF to show AGAIN! I'm feeling pretty numb right now and ready for tomorrow to be over with. I never thought I would still be pregnant today. Based on my past history, it is likely that my baby would have been born at 38 weeks or before (long story). Things were much tougher for me 2 weeks ago when it was the actual time that my sweet angel should have been born.
I'm tired of this dragging out. Once tomorrow is done I think I will really start to feel like the whole messy, painful chapter of my life is behind me. I would really like to get pregnant again and add another blessing to our family; but God seems to have other plans for us.
Anyway, I know I'm rambling. It is late and waaay past my bedtime. DH's alarm will start going off in about 5 hours. Thanks for taking the time to read this far. If you can, I could sure use an extra little prayer in the next day or two.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Virginia
Posts: 2,007
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Oh hun - I am very sorry 
I can only imagine how painful this must be for you! You will be in my T&P over the next few days!
Hang in there!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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I am so sorry for you loss and ttcing struggles
The EDD are so hard I am thinking about you and your family.
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Varnville, SC
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i am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)
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Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
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I'm so sorry honey. I hope you can find some peace in your day, as I'm sure your angel will be staying close.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 834
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I'm sorry you're having to go through this. EDDs are so hard. It's really tough to not think where you should be at today.
Treat yourself to something nice today - pedicure, walk in the park, dinner with SO, etc. You deserve something nice on this sad day.
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Nicole
Me: 33
DH: 32
TTC 3/07
m/c - 7/29/07 (5w4d)
m/c - 10/8/07 (6w4d)
m/c - 2/27/08 (11w5d)
m/c - 6/20/08 (7w2d)
9/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, not enough mature follies
10/08 - IVF w/ PGD: Cycle cancelled, ovulated on my own
12/08 - IVF w/ PGD: BFP!
Owen Royce...born August 28, 2009
1/10 IVF w/ PGD: 1 egg fertilized, so no PGD
1/30/10 Transferred in one embryo
2/13/10 - BFP!
Georgia Elle...born October 15, 2010
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: New York
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My EDD was in April, and it was really tough for me. I thought for sure I'd be pregnant long before my DD, but that didn't happen. Now I'm hoping to be pregnant before I got my BFP, which was August 1st, and the next goal will be the day I lost my angel. It's definitely tough to see those dates go by.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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I'm sorry you're having to go through this. EDDs are so hard. It's really tough to not think where you should be at today.
Treat yourself to something nice today - pedicure, walk in the park, dinner with SO, etc. You deserve something nice on this sad day.[/b]
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I agree
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Texas
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(((HUGS)) These sad "milestones" are so hard. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's not fair.
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I'm sorry Jen! 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 2,514
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I'm so sorry. I hope that you can do something special, just for yourself. My EDD is right around the corner... seems like it comes so fast, but so slow at the same time. Big
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