[amy2008]

I had a lap and d&c 6/13. My RE said that everything looks good - she cleaned out my cysts and got rid of some endo. She said we could try another IUI on my next cycle. I am leaving on vacation 7/24 and by my calculations I needed AF to show up on Tuesday, 7/8, to make it work. Of course, AF was a no show. But she showed up today. I called the dr office and the nurse said to come in tomorrow for an u/s, but she was pretty confident they could get an attempt in before I left. I only needed 11 days my last IUI - 9 days of shots then the IUI...and that one resulted in a pg. I am torn.

On one hand, I want to try now while my system is "clean". I have heard countless stories about full-term pregnancies after this procedure. But, on the other hand, I had almost looked forward to this month off as a time to just breathe. If I do the IUI, I will need to do progesterone suppositories twice daily on vacation, which would be a bit awkward. But what if this is a sign? What if this is my month? I haven't really been preparing all that well. I have been drinking caffeine, I haven't been eating as well as I could. But still, what if??

This is the part about TTC that I absolutely despise...the wondering, the questions, the second guessing, the hope. I suppose being on vacation would make the 2WW go a bit faster - I will be fully occupied the entire week I am gone. But I have been on vacation before immediately following an IUI and it did affect my activities...I didn't ride that super fast roller-coaster because I didn't want to jar the bean lose (ridiculous, I know, but that is what I felt). Will I be able to fully enjoy this vacation if I do it? Will I be able to live with myself if I don't?

I had resigned myself to waiting until August, but now that I have a chance, do I take it? I hate this uncertainty.

[*Bobbie*]

Hmmm that is a tough one. I am inclined to say wait and do it next cycle. Are you doing injectables with IUI? I know what you mean about taking it easy. After my injectable/IUI cycle I was afraid to breathe wrong.

I am going to say wait so you can just relax and enjoy your vacation and start fresh next cycle. That's just my opinion Good luck whatever you decide!

[..Jessica..]

You sound stressed already and you haven't even been to see the doc. I say you wait a cycle, and relax, breathe, and enjoy your vacation!

Good luck hun, with whatever it is you decide.

[katiegirl]

You sound like this vacation would do you a world of good.
Go relax, have fun...
I say wait a month, but that is just my opinion.

Good Luck and KUP on whatever you decide.

[.x~KAT~x.]

i have to say that i do agree with the others, go enjoy your break and get a stress free BFP in august

[Wee3monkeys]

Hmmm, I was originally going to say go for it, but I'm starting to rethink my answer. I'm impatient, and I'd want to do it NOW, but I understand all the reasons to sit out this cycle. Make a list of pros and cons:

Pro:
Get back in the game after being cleaned out.
You're not waiting another 28-30 days (I'm such an impatient person).
You're vacation would possibly keep your mind occupied during the 2ww.
You add anymore you can think of......

Cons:
You sound like you could use the break, and relaxation.
You may enjoy your vacation more, as you aren't thinking about your 2ww and activity limitations.
Progesterone suppositories, I don't need to say anything else
It may be good to let your body recover for a full cycle after your procedure.
Whatever else you can think of......

Well that didn't really help, as they're just opposites of each other really. I guess I'm no help. I'd want to, but it would probably make more sense to wait till next cycle. KUP, either way, I hope your next round brings you your sticky BFP!!

So what part of Omaha are you in? We do come up there often. We love the zoo, and we have friends down in Papillion.

[kellyanne]

I think a TTC free vacation sounds lovely.....but honestly, I probably wouldn't be able to take my own advice (I'm also a bit impatient

[Eleysia]

I dunno hunny Im gonna have to agree, it sounds like you do need this month to catch your breath. That sucks to say, or even to have to hear, but if youre not ready mentally and/or physically then it starts you out in the negative. i think having a carefree vacation is just what you need

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I think I agree with the other ladies about the carefree vacation, but I'd probably do it because I'm impatient too. G/L with whatever you decide. We're here for you either way honey!

[*Bobbie*]

Well I went and read most of your blog.

First off.... huge Kudos to you to be TTC without a man!

Now I really say wait, because if you are paying all that money and only do IUI (with no DTD) the IUI is sooo important.... I wouldn't want anything to mess that up. Plus there is no guarantee you will be able to get the IUI in before vacation right? I say save the money for next cycle...and know that you will have a huge cheering squad praying for your BFP

Love ya girl... and I don't even know you yet!

[Nicole1022]

Hmmmm. I was origianlly going to so go for it. But maybe a break would be good. Especially if there's a chance you won't have enough time to get the IUI in. It would be good to have the stree free vacation. Good to have tons of fun, ride the coasters and not worry.

KUP on your final decision!

[amy2008]

Hi Ladies,

Thanks for all the support! I met with the dr this morning and gave her all my arguments - both for and against. Of course, she didn't say definitely yes or no, but she said she would do it. I have had all IUI's on CD 14 and I leave on CD 17 and she said we do have a bit of leeway.

So, me being the impatient gal that I am, I decided to go for it. I was in a very bad place last night and was pretty much venting all my negativity. I woke up this morning with a much better attitude. I just know myself well enough to know that I would always wonder "what if" if I didn't try. And honestly, my vacation is lazing on water at the Ozarks. I haven't been on water skis for YEARS so it isn't like I am going to miss that. I think I can manage to laze around on a floaty and not feel like I am missing out.

Although, those progesterone suppositories are going to suck.

Thanks again for all the support. I will start my shots tomorrow and go for my next u/s on Thursday. If, for some unforeseen reason, on CD 16 it still doesn't look good, I will just not have the IUI. But I am feeling pretty positive.

I am SO glad I found this forum. You ladies rock!

[*Bobbie*]

I am glad you made a decision.... to you! Vacation sounds soooo good right now

There is also a TTC with Medical Assistance board here at JM....
http://www.justmommies.com/boards/in...p?showforum=71

I am not sure if you have found it yet? I love that board too.

[jenn27]

Well i just wanted to say good luck this cycle and I hope this is it for you. i didn't post before you made the decision but it's just one of those things where you have to listen to both your head and your heart and do what gives you peace of mind. I'm sure your vacation will still be wonderful. I hope you get your BFP and that you have a wonderful time on vacation.