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July 12th, 2008, 06:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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not sure if it's anything, but i'm having some spotting today. af is due today, but yesterday i took an hpt (which i posted a pic of) and it was fairly medium. then today i took another and the line was noticeably darker. now later today i started spotting! but if my hpt got darker, why??!! i know i know, sometimes spotting is just spotting. but i'm getting that feeling again- that feeling when i started bleeding that day i had the m/c. like i just want to cry. even though technically af was due today anyway, i've already gotten 3 obvious bfp, no faint lines. why did i test??? i would've been better off just getting af (since it was due today anyway) than knowing about my bfp.
let's hope the spotting stops, but i'm very sad about it anyway.
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July 12th, 2008, 06:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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With both of my kids I had spotting the day AF was due.
I know it is easier said than done but at this point if it is just spotting try not to worry.
I will keep you in my T&Ps, please KUP!!
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July 12th, 2008, 07:23 PM
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I also had spotting with both of my children. My DD I bled for 3 days and with my son I actually bled from July 13-Aug. 1. But he is 7 yrs old now and doing great. I will keep you in my prayers.
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July 12th, 2008, 07:45 PM
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 I will keep you in my t&p's i hope its just normal spotting. ((HUGS))
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July 12th, 2008, 08:36 PM
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I really hope it's nothing!
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July 12th, 2008, 08:40 PM
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Hopefully it's nothing to it. Try not to worry to much even though I know that's easier said than done. You are in my thoughts and prayers. KUP.
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July 12th, 2008, 08:44 PM
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t&P comeing ur way. i spotted in the beg. with clay
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July 12th, 2008, 09:34 PM
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I hope it's normal. 
I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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July 12th, 2008, 09:59 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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it's good to hear that some of you had spotting w/ your pg. so far it hasn't gotten worse and turned into af, it's still just spotting. i'll test tomorrow morning and see if that hpt gets any darker. i've taken 3 tests and all of them have shown up almost immediately, so i don't think it could be anything else but a bfp.
i hate this! i'll update if anything else happens.
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July 12th, 2008, 10:16 PM
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I know what you mean about hating being in "limbo"....I'm right there with ya. As for the spotting....here's my story w/ DD. I found out I was pregnant at 8 weeks because I had enough bleeding at 4 weeks that I didn't even question that it was AF. Now, after everything I've been through, I think back and imagine how nuts I would have been if I had known I was pg before all that bleeding. I'm SO glad that I didn't!! Hang in there!
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July 13th, 2008, 02:40 AM
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well hello there preggie linda 
spotting when af is due is perfectly normal. around 88% of women have this!
this baby has to be a sticky one so stay strong and happy and enjoy every minute of it sweetheart
xxx
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July 13th, 2008, 06:27 AM
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I have been spotting pretty much since I got my BFP 
I think it's normal at the point you are at and will turn out to be nothing 
It really is most likely from that bean burrowing (sp?) in.
I hope it goes away soon so you can enjoy the next 36 weeks 
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July 13th, 2008, 07:37 AM
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Im keeping my fingers crossed for you hun...and im thinking its just golnna be regular early preg spotting and nothing to worry about xxx
Try to relax, put yer feet up if you can and get dh to get you some yummy food 
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July 13th, 2008, 12:59 PM
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thanks again soooooo much, you don't know how good it is to hear reassuring things right now. once you've been through it, you just expect the worst.
but an update- i tested again this morning, and it was even darker than yesterday's. i should post a pic of the hpts. anyhoo, the spotting is still on and off, but still extremely light and mostly brownish. which i'm so glad for. at times it is pink, and then i hate it. but mostly it's brownish. i hope it's just normal spotting. i finally told dh today about my bfp, last night when i started spotting i was thinking i wouldn't even tell him, just in case. but this morning when i tested it was so dark, and the spotting hadn't turned into a flow, so i told him. 
i'll go take a pic of my hpts and post that.
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July 13th, 2008, 01:02 PM
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 I'm glad that line is still getting darker!!! I hope that darn spotting goes away so you can enjoy your pg fully! ((HUGS))
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July 13th, 2008, 01:06 PM
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I'm sure everything will be just fine, i had full on bleeding with both the girls and they are here and healthy. Try and keep your head up, and i can't wait to see the pics!
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July 13th, 2008, 01:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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yes the spotting makes it hard to relax and just be happy.
i just posted a new pic
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