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July 15th, 2008, 07:59 PM
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1 of Each is such a Treat
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: ~*West Coast of BC Canada*~
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Helllllpppp Im sooooooooooo scared...  K.. I lost my sweet Angel on May 8th... Got my first AF on June 14th... It was a normal af, a lil longer than normal, 7 days, rather than 5 or 6... a lil heavier on days 2 and 3.. I was guna wait one more AF before trying.. But I got this EXTREMELY dark + OPK on July 2nd.. and I couldnt resist... so I BD'd.. Being VERY doubtful that I would actually get PG, by BD'ing ONCE! in my fertile window.. basically in the whole month.. well... Yesterday, at 12 dpo, I took a test at like 3pm and got a bfp..  I was in SHOCK... I cried and everything.. so.. The next morning I took another... 13 dpo.. with fmu... Def a bfp...
Please please please Pray for me Im so scared... Im jus scared its guna happen again.. for those who dont remember (which is probably Alot of you) I had a SCH (subchrionic hematoma) that resulted in placental abruption and hemmorhaging at 10 weeks  .. I see my Dr the day after tomorrow.. Im hoping he will schedule an early US!
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July 15th, 2008, 08:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Syleena,
I'm PRAYING that this bean will be in your arms in 9 months!!
Congratulations girl!!!
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July 15th, 2008, 08:25 PM
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1 of Each is such a Treat
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Join Date: May 2008
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Thank you Jessica! Im very freaked out, the cramping makes me freak RIGHT out.. I know its normal.. I had it with my DS, and I hear its a very common pg symptom.. But As you know, and every one on this board knows... How scary it is..
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July 15th, 2008, 08:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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Congrats!!!! 
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~IRENE~ MOM TO 8 KIDDOES! DS 18, DD 16, DD 14, DD 8, DS 6, DD 4, DS 3 and DS 1
Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
17W "Angel"
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July 15th, 2008, 08:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Washington
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Congratulations!!! I am feeling the exact same way since i got my BFP. All we can really do is pray and try to stay positive! I hope your Dr schedules you a u/s and you are holding a baby in your arms in 9 months!! 
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July 15th, 2008, 08:35 PM
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just me
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YAY!!! I'm excited for you Syleena. And yes, cramping is VERY normal. I've had it with all three of my pregnancies so far. Hopefully your doctor can help calm your fears a bit.
And come join us in PAL!!!
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July 15th, 2008, 09:24 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Congrats girl! I'll be praying for you!
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July 15th, 2008, 09:30 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Congratulations!! I wouldn't worry about only waiting one cycle at all. That is the amount of time most docs recommend. After what I've been through recently, I would like to suggest waiting until 6 1/2 or 7 weeks for that early u/s. I know its hard to wait though.
Now who was it that was just saying they felt another bunch of BFP's coming on?
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July 15th, 2008, 09:53 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i know exactly how you feel. the whole wk before af i was cramping so i was sure af was coming. then i got my bfp, and still cramping. it just stopped today, but i had it for almost 2 wks. and spotting too! which is now gone.
i'm sure we are all scared (i sure am) but i feel better having some of you guys from ttcal w/ me at pal or the mar ddc. (which i haven't joined yet cuz i'm too scared). we can get through it together!
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July 15th, 2008, 10:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 congrats on your bfp...its lovely and dark to!!
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July 15th, 2008, 10:53 PM
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1 of Each is such a Treat
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Thanks ladies!!!
Kelly! I know, I want to see if I can get it for 8 weeks... Cuz then Id for sure see a little bean.. and a heartbeat with no questions.... then another at 12.. We spotted the blood collection at 9wks 6 days with my Angel...
Linda.. I HATE the cramping.. Cuz although you know its common, you also know that it CAN be a bad thing..
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July 15th, 2008, 11:50 PM
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Generally Crispy
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I wanst here when it happened but I remember reading about it. I am sorry that was something that you and hubby had to go thru.
I am praying that your little bean is super sticky. I think that you might be able to request an ultrasound.
Congratulations!!!! You are so blessed.
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July 16th, 2008, 02:29 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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 did you not already post to say you got a bfp?
im sure that wasnt a dream! well, i was sure 
anyway, congratulations sweety. i know the cramping is very scary but most of the time its not a bad thing.
wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months
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July 16th, 2008, 04:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'll keep you in my prayers and hope that your bean stays sticky for 9 months. I am sure it is very scary and I know I will be a nervous wreck when I finally get my next BFP. Try your best to stay as positive as you can.
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July 16th, 2008, 04:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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big congrats hon!!! 
Hoping for h & h 9 months for you!
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July 16th, 2008, 04:44 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Congrats!! GROW, BABY, GROW!! I'll be praying for you and your lil bean.
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July 16th, 2008, 05:43 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Congrats Syleena! I'm so happy for you. Let us know what the dr says.
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July 16th, 2008, 05:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Congrats. I am prying for a healthy baby for you.
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July 16th, 2008, 06:31 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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July 16th, 2008, 07:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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